I am lost with what to do...

[spiritman1]

get a job first!........before thinking about any women, or anything eles, at least this is what your friend is probably thinking

 

[barefeetonholyground]

get a job first!........before thinking about any women, or anything eles, at least this is what your friend is probably thinking

No girl wants to wait around for a guy to get his act together. If you're motivated to be with this girl you wouldn't need us to push you into doing what you need to do to be worthy of this girl.

 

[Blank123]

I agree with seattle rain and strav. If this was God telling you to pursue her, the doors would all be open for you to pursue her. You'd both be completely healed and over your past relationships, you'd feel the peace of God, and there wouldn't be any questioning about whether or not you "should" pursue her. It sounds like you've met a nice girl that you really like and part of you is beginning to think again about relationships. but you're clearly not ready, which is not surprising. No one would be 2 months after a divorce. Chances are you may not be ready for a very long time. And thats ok. You'll know when you're ready to date again, and you won't have to second guess yourself.