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God is telling me to pursue a relationship, but I don't know if I should. My wife left me after 9 months of marriage, and she divorced my about 2 months ago. At this point, I am wanting to move on, and am ready to, but am afraid to give my heart away to just anyone. There is a girl that I haven't known for very long that God is telling me He has plans for me with her. Right now, I don't have a job, I am living with a friend until I can get on my feet again, and if I am going to be in a relationship, I would like to be able to provide. I feel a strong connection with this woman, and I can say that I am somewhat scared because of how bad I got hurt before, and I don't want to go through that again. Another issue is that she went through the same thing as me, minus being married, and she doesn't think she is ready for a relationship either.
With my self confidence, I think she is way too gorgeous to be with an average Joe like me, and she is way out of my league. God tells me, and I have received extremely overwhelming confirmation that He has a plan for the two of us, and He want's me to pursue it, but I am afraid. I am trying to get on my feet again, I don't want to get hurt again, and I don't know if she is ready for a relationship or if I am even someone that she would even be interested in. I keep praying about what to do, and He keeps telling me what I need to do, but I am so scared. I don't want to pursue it, scare her away if she's not ready for a relationship, and then be let down again. I am just so lost on what I should do.... Does anyone have any help or advice at all? Any help is much appreciated. Thank you and God bless!
God is telling me to pursue a relationship, but I don't know if I should. My wife left me after 9 months of marriage, and she divorced my about 2 months ago. At this point, I am wanting to move on, and am ready to, but am afraid to give my heart away to just anyone. There is a girl that I haven't known for very long that God is telling me He has plans for me with her. Right now, I don't have a job, I am living with a friend until I can get on my feet again, and if I am going to be in a relationship, I would like to be able to provide. I feel a strong connection with this woman, and I can say that I am somewhat scared because of how bad I got hurt before, and I don't want to go through that again. Another issue is that she went through the same thing as me, minus being married, and she doesn't think she is ready for a relationship either.
With my self confidence, I think she is way too gorgeous to be with an average Joe like me, and she is way out of my league. God tells me, and I have received extremely overwhelming confirmation that He has a plan for the two of us, and He want's me to pursue it, but I am afraid. I am trying to get on my feet again, I don't want to get hurt again, and I don't know if she is ready for a relationship or if I am even someone that she would even be interested in. I keep praying about what to do, and He keeps telling me what I need to do, but I am so scared. I don't want to pursue it, scare her away if she's not ready for a relationship, and then be let down again. I am just so lost on what I should do.... Does anyone have any help or advice at all? Any help is much appreciated. Thank you and God bless!