One thing I'm trying to learn is to be able to co-exist with those i disagree with and are Christians. This is a very very difficult thing for me. Put me in a room of non-christians and I have no expectation level of what they should know or believe. I view them as haters of God so there is not expectation level of moral or spiritual behavior i should expect, unlike my expectation level is with Christians. My biggest issue is what Christians should know from Scripture or interpret it, not how they should act.
So an example of this has now happened at my new church. The Sunday School that I'm in has finished the book of Romans, which I enjoyed, and now has started a video series discussion which Andy Stanley is the speaker. its an 8 week course and this is partially to ties us over until a new church wide study is starting in the fall, which i'm thinking might be the Gospel Project, and I'm excited about that.
So Andy Stanley is the stereotypical preacher I find misses the mark in interpreting Scripture to make a point that Scripture doesn't actually say. For instance, I believe this first video was about Matthew being asked by Jesus, "Follow Me", in which Andy says this is all Jesus asks us to do. Not rules. Not regulations. just follow like Matthew.
I find this completely misses the context. The previous verses where of the lame man asked to rise and take his bed and walk. This was something the man could not do except Jesus commanded it so. And next was Matthew with Jesus saying Follow Me. Again and command incapable of Matthew to do, except Jesus commanding it so.
So at first my response with a bit of angst, while trying not to show it. Then as the video went, then entering conversation in group i stayed silent to gather my thoughts and to try to find something useful to say without showing disagreement with the video and my angst towards Andy, because the leader, and my friend, loves some Andy Stanley and gets fired up.
There were certainly some better things i thought of after the class that i shall at least keep my focus on for the series. But the same issue arises here. There are some here i drastically disagree with here, but I know the same respect and love for one another should be displayed here. But I'm not sure everyone is capable of properly doing this AND disagreeing. I'm not quite sure I am.
Dr. James White went on the Dr. Drew Show to discuss Gay Marriage with other gay people. His first time he wasn't there but on video, and the guest at the show were overly frustrated at Dr. White. The second time around Dr. White went to the studio and received a different reaction despite a very openly view on gay marriage from a Scriptural stance. However Dr. White also used Psychological data that Dr. Drew agreed with to show support for his view. What Dr. White did was educate himself and presented a stance most Christians would probably not do, despite knowing the Scriptural stance more than most Christians and pastors do.
I'm arrogant. I think i know more than most Christians, but I'm also quite immature as well. I have weakness and some fall in the "how to disagree respectfully" area. I try. Its difficult. Usually I end up being quiet in church when I do disagree.
The odds are in a baptist church, where people beleive you can make the choice on your own to be saved, I'm going to disagree with many since my background is calvinistic but also turning Lutheran in many areas. So I'm no stranger to disagreements in church.
Any thoughts on disagreements and how you handle them?
So an example of this has now happened at my new church. The Sunday School that I'm in has finished the book of Romans, which I enjoyed, and now has started a video series discussion which Andy Stanley is the speaker. its an 8 week course and this is partially to ties us over until a new church wide study is starting in the fall, which i'm thinking might be the Gospel Project, and I'm excited about that.
So Andy Stanley is the stereotypical preacher I find misses the mark in interpreting Scripture to make a point that Scripture doesn't actually say. For instance, I believe this first video was about Matthew being asked by Jesus, "Follow Me", in which Andy says this is all Jesus asks us to do. Not rules. Not regulations. just follow like Matthew.
I find this completely misses the context. The previous verses where of the lame man asked to rise and take his bed and walk. This was something the man could not do except Jesus commanded it so. And next was Matthew with Jesus saying Follow Me. Again and command incapable of Matthew to do, except Jesus commanding it so.
So at first my response with a bit of angst, while trying not to show it. Then as the video went, then entering conversation in group i stayed silent to gather my thoughts and to try to find something useful to say without showing disagreement with the video and my angst towards Andy, because the leader, and my friend, loves some Andy Stanley and gets fired up.
There were certainly some better things i thought of after the class that i shall at least keep my focus on for the series. But the same issue arises here. There are some here i drastically disagree with here, but I know the same respect and love for one another should be displayed here. But I'm not sure everyone is capable of properly doing this AND disagreeing. I'm not quite sure I am.
Dr. James White went on the Dr. Drew Show to discuss Gay Marriage with other gay people. His first time he wasn't there but on video, and the guest at the show were overly frustrated at Dr. White. The second time around Dr. White went to the studio and received a different reaction despite a very openly view on gay marriage from a Scriptural stance. However Dr. White also used Psychological data that Dr. Drew agreed with to show support for his view. What Dr. White did was educate himself and presented a stance most Christians would probably not do, despite knowing the Scriptural stance more than most Christians and pastors do.
I'm arrogant. I think i know more than most Christians, but I'm also quite immature as well. I have weakness and some fall in the "how to disagree respectfully" area. I try. Its difficult. Usually I end up being quiet in church when I do disagree.
The odds are in a baptist church, where people beleive you can make the choice on your own to be saved, I'm going to disagree with many since my background is calvinistic but also turning Lutheran in many areas. So I'm no stranger to disagreements in church.
Any thoughts on disagreements and how you handle them?