Perhaps I overshared. I delved into the question of universals proper to human nature and the differentiation of gender. Her eyes began to glaze over when I started quoting medieval philosophers. I sensed our interview was coming to a close, and wished her a happy Saturday. Awesome, I thought in my hubris, she looked super convinced.
Then I read her article a few days ago. I discovered that my interviewer was Lila Shapiro, a two-time award-winning journalist for the Gay Voices section of Huffington Post. I prepared myself to read her spin on what I said. I was surprised, though, when I saw that she disliked the interview so much that she just made up another one to replace it.
According to her, I said the following: Im a married human being, so what does this mean for me? Its against the way I see marriage. Its against the way I see myself. Shapiro scoffed, Same-sex marriage is wrong because, well . . . because its wrong.
An imaginative fabrication. Apparently Im married? (Im not). It was frustrating that after a twenty-minute interview in which I listed numerous reasons why government redefinition of marriage is bad for everyone, Shapiro published a (completely fictional) quote that boiled down to its my personal opinion. What do you win the LGBT Journalist of the Year award for? Yarn-spinning? Creative hijinks?
Yet this broach of journalistic ethics is more interesting than irritating to me. Shapiro said it herself numerous times: This issue is already decided. Public opinion has ruled: There are no good arguments for traditional marriage.
So why should Lila lie? If my arguments were stupid, why not publish them?
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