How ever long it takes. If it takes years then it takes years, if it takes weeks then it is takes weeks. If God desires you to be married with in a month You obey God. if he disires you to be married in 20 years. you obey God.
There is no earthly model or rule about how long... there is only God. do what God says, when he says it, how he says it.
God's way is always better, not always easier, but always better!
