I know that Christians get married in a church, but exactly what are the steps for a marriage? Is marriage controlled by the state or by the church? Perhaps, Christians get their marriage license first from the state and then hold a wedding ceremony by their church? Is a standard Western wedding really a Christian wedding, with or without the mentioning of the word "God"? If Christians want to divorce, do they hire a divorce lawyer and obtain a legal divorce, or do they ask a priest to annul their marriage? Do Christians divorce in the secular court, or do they hire Christian lawyers and file for divorce in a Christian courtroom and judge whether or not the divorce has met the biblical requirements for a divorce? Can a Roman Catholic Christian marry a Protestant? If a Roman Catholic man marries a Protestant woman, then how will the children be raised - based on Roman Catholic teachings or Protestant teachings, even when they contradict each other? Do Christians ever date and meet their match, or do they ask their parents to arrange a marriage for them? What if the parents do not approve of their child's future spouse based on concerns on theological incompatibilities? Does the child still have to obey his or her parents and not marry the future spouse? Who has the power to officiate a Christian wedding - the Church or the State? Is a Christian marriage considered valid, if the partners are married by a priest but obtain no marriage license from the state? Do Christians seek legal recognition for their marriage as well as obtaining a marriage license, or do they think that just being married by a priest is more important?
I know I have a lot of questions, so try to answer as much as you can handle!
I know I have a lot of questions, so try to answer as much as you can handle!
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