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Hi all,
Good to be here. I used to be a christian through and through but lately I thin ki've lost my faith. I find myself questioning more and more why god would do the things he's done to me.

First incident was probably about six months ago. My grandmother died in a freak car accident in which her winshield was smashed and a chunk of glass got stuck i nher head, and i'm certain it was not her time. She was taken from me and I am still bitter about it.
The second thing that made me think was when i was tryin gto find a job. I'm fresh out of high school so I don't have much experience. Now i'm not a stupid guy but how in the heck do i not get accepted into mcdonalds or burger king?? And idiot can work there..except me apparently. Then i tried aplying for other less mentally "demanding" jobs. I tried to get into some landscaping but i'm too weak and they take one look at me and say heck no...this guy couldn't lift a feather. Finally i got a job beign a janitor. A lowly stinky janitor at a old folks home. And that ain't pretty.
So i'm here to try and find my way back if some people can help convince me that there is a god and that he's not spiting me.

anyway...I'll be around. Talk to y'all later.
 

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Busta.... welcome. Remember that all things occur according to God's plan.... regardless whether we agree...! I'm sorry to hear about your loss..... but it definitely was in God's time, although you may seriously disagree...! Maybe God wants you to be a janitor.... maybe you need to see the people there, or to meet someone or to touch their lives. I'm sure Joseph didn't want to be sold into slavery by his brothers, or to be jailed, etc.... but it was the path God chose for him... to be 2nd in command of all Egypt!
Maybe God is humbling you because you have turned your back or questioned his love.... so maybe you should be a cheerful janitor,,,,? No one can convince you whether there is a God or not..... it is a matter of faith. You know there is a God. Remember.... THY will be done, not MY will be done...... Praying for you brother...!
 
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beeks919 said:
Busta.... welcome. Remember that all things occur according to God's plan.... regardless whether we agree...! I'm sorry to hear about your loss..... but it definitely was in God's time, although you may seriously disagree...! Maybe God wants you to be a janitor.... maybe you need to see the people there, or to meet someone or to touch their lives. I'm sure Joseph didn't want to be sold into slavery by his brothers, or to be jailed, etc.... but it was the path God chose for him... to be 2nd in command of all Egypt!
Maybe God is humbling you because you have turned your back or questioned his love.... so maybe you should be a cheerful janitor,,,,? No one can convince you whether there is a God or not..... it is a matter of faith. You know there is a God. Remember.... THY will be done, not MY will be done...... Praying for you brother...!
I did not question his love until these things happened though. Like i said...before hand i was devout. Then, during my faith he threw this into the mix. I don't see the reason.


Adn thanx all for the welcome. Good to be here :clap:
 
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I hear ya.... you know, I just turned 40 this year, and am only now trying to figure out the reason some things happened in my past..... in fact, I just found out last week my wife had an affair...... talk about getting hit..! but then, this is one of many of God's tests..... my wife realized she truly loved me, I realized I had sorta "coasted" in my walk....... in hockey terms, I had my head down with the puck and God cleaned me out, Kevin Stevens style....! I mean, be honest, were you living a lifestyle pleasing to God...? Even if you were, when bad things happen, Satan uses them to make you question God.... one of his favorite tactics....! His whole goal is to separate you from God...... Get back into the Word.....! Remember, this Earth is Satan's.... Jesus reclaims it in the 2nd coming.... so is it any wonder we question things, like bad things happening to us...?? Put on the whole armor of God
(Ephesians 6) and get back in the battle.....! :p
 
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beeks919 said:
I hear ya.... you know, I just turned 40 this year, and am only now trying to figure out the reason some things happened in my past..... in fact, I just found out last week my wife had an affair...... talk about getting hit..! but then, this is one of many of God's tests..... my wife realized she truly loved me, I realized I had sorta "coasted" in my walk....... in hockey terms, I had my head down with the puck and God cleaned me out, Kevin Stevens style....! I mean, be honest, were you living a lifestyle pleasing to God...? Even if you were, when bad things happen, Satan uses them to make you question God.... one of his favorite tactics....! His whole goal is to separate you from God...... Get back into the Word.....! Remember, this Earth is Satan's.... Jesus reclaims it in the 2nd coming.... so is it any wonder we question things, like bad things happening to us...?? Put on the whole armor of God
(Ephesians 6) and get back in the battle.....! :p
Ask yourself this. Why should you live your life to please someone else who for all you know doesn't exist? Shouldn't you be making yourself happy as well? Where do you draw the line of pleasing god and pleasing yourself?
 
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Busta_Kapp said:
Ask yourself this. Why should you live your life to please someone else who for all you know doesn't exist? Shouldn't you be making yourself happy as well? Where do you draw the line of pleasing god and pleasing yourself?
Why should I.....? Well, ask yourself this.... this lifetime, however long or short, will surely end in death. After that, it's either smoking or non-smoking..... The life of a true Christian is never easy.... but one day you will have to stand in judgement before God, and give an account of yourself. Go ahead and tell Him you didn't beleive in Him, and you just wanted to be happy..... Another tactic of Satan, the master of deceit and lies.... question God. Do you really need Him...? Is what He says really true...? Why not do your own thing and be happy...?? (exactly what he told Eve..!)

You must decide. I choose to do my best to please God, and in that, I am happy.... I continue to pray for you, brother...!
 
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Hello, and welcome! We hope you have a great time on CF.

Sorry to hear about your loss. We have all had some down times in our walk in faith. Jesus is always there to get us back on track, and sometimes the reasons why these things happen will be made apparent, if not in this life, then in the Heavenly Kingdom.

There are many topics discussed here, and you will be able find people with similar interests. God bless you!
 
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beeks919 said:
Why should I.....? Well, ask yourself this.... this lifetime, however long or short, will surely end in death. After that, it's either smoking or non-smoking..... The life of a true Christian is never easy.... but one day you will have to stand in judgement before God, and give an account of yourself. Go ahead and tell Him you didn't beleive in Him, and you just wanted to be happy..... Another tactic of Satan, the master of deceit and lies.... question God. Do you really need Him...? Is what He says really true...? Why not do your own thing and be happy...?? (exactly what he told Eve..!)

You must decide. I choose to do my best to please God, and in that, I am happy.... I continue to pray for you, brother...!
:amen:

Busta, it's great to have you here! I hope you find the answers you seek, and let the Lord reveal Himself to you. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
 
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