Hello, I apologize if this is in the wrong area of the forums i wasn't sure where to post this.
I'm currently divorced. I was deployed to S. Korea for a year and when I came back, on the second day, my ex wife confessed to have fallen in love with a woman. I don't believe she cheated on me during that time but I was devastated and was having a back slide with God and I didn't handle it well. I wasn't the husband she needed me to be, and even though she fell in love with someone else I can't shake the feeling that she still wanted to be with me.. but how could she allow herself to do that? I was gone for that whole year too you know?! Later on after being separated for a couple months I initiated the divorce and February of 2016 it was finalized. My problem is: Am I allowed to find someone to marry? Am I sinning against God if I do? I don't want to spend the rest of my life without someone. It took awhile to forgive her and even longer to forgive myself and God is working in my heart again.. I just need to know.
I'm currently divorced. I was deployed to S. Korea for a year and when I came back, on the second day, my ex wife confessed to have fallen in love with a woman. I don't believe she cheated on me during that time but I was devastated and was having a back slide with God and I didn't handle it well. I wasn't the husband she needed me to be, and even though she fell in love with someone else I can't shake the feeling that she still wanted to be with me.. but how could she allow herself to do that? I was gone for that whole year too you know?! Later on after being separated for a couple months I initiated the divorce and February of 2016 it was finalized. My problem is: Am I allowed to find someone to marry? Am I sinning against God if I do? I don't want to spend the rest of my life without someone. It took awhile to forgive her and even longer to forgive myself and God is working in my heart again.. I just need to know.