This threadhad me thinking, this guy has been open and HONEST about his feelings,and theni thought, he really recieved no solid advice....and not that i can give any either, but i will not stand in judgement of him, i will Love him, think about what Jesus did for him, me , you...... Because.................
have any of you done any of this? Just 1 of them?
If you have ever broken any of the Ten Commandments, you are a sinner. Have you ever let something else come between you and God? Have you ever worshipped an image, object, or living thing as though it was God? Have you ever used Gods name as a curse word? Have you ever failed to keep the Sabbath day holy? Have you ever been disrespectful to your parents? Have you ever committed murder or bitterly hated someone? Have you ever committed adultery or had impure thoughts about another person? Have you ever taken something that was not yours? Have you ever told a lie? Have you ever been jealous of other peoples possessions? If you have every done any of these things, even just once, you are a sinner. The Bible says that we are ALL sinners. "For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God."
So DID not Jesus come to this earth to take on the sin of the world? Yes we are suppose to repent, and not do it again....and try our best, but we ALL fall short. everyone of us.
Didn't Jesus with the women who was caught in adultery, say So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.
Then He said...When Jesus had lifted up himself, and saw none but the woman, he said unto her, Woman, where are those thine accusers? hath no man condemned thee?
She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.
I think i am going to side with Jesus on this one. He is a forgiving God, Does not mean we keep repeating the same offense over and over again without remorse.
the OP seems to be caring, and honest, and wants whats best for his wife, so she can have someone that truley loves her.......
Praying for You, God will lead you, sometimes when we sit quietly with Him we get the answer..better Him then man!