- Nov 2, 2007
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Developing friendships has always been a weakness of mine. I don't know how to develop and maintain close relationships. Most of my closest friends are close because they took the initiative. Unfortunately, we all graduated and moved away. I have lived in the same place for a full year now, and I feel so alone. My church is amazing. I feel like I belong there. The pastor is great, and the service is wonderful. I'm involved in the childrens' ministry (although I am stepping back at the end of the month for personal reasons). The only problem is that I feel so awkward when I'm talking to people at the church. I can barely remember names, and I don't know how to carry a conversation or get to know them. I don't know what questions to ask. Adults intimidate me so much... even those my age and younger. I am scared to death to talk to them. How do you guys go about getting to know people?