I've been too busy to do one about myself until now, but you seem to be a pretty wise woman there.Hey, none of us are 100% right all the time so you are bound to have something wrong with you, that is normal , you are human Sean afterall. Having some sort of flaw doesn't stop people from being attracted to you and wanting to date you, part of getting into a relationship is accepting the other person warts and all. It is your lack of confidence that is your barrier. It is a good idea to work on that .
Naturally I have some anxiety issues and that cannot really be changed other than by what I'm doing now, so I'm not going to count that. Beyond that, I have two major issues, one of which Becky has already touched upon:
1. I have no confidence. I can't believe that I can do it. I'm a wet noodle.
2. I'm afraid of taking risks. Partially it is due to my low confidence, but also because I seem to think of societal rules a bit too strongly. Risks mean bad things can happen, even though really good things could also happen too.
As for solutions....I need to start talking to more girls. It makes me realize that they are just people to, what a shocking concept lol. Also makes things seem so much more in reach (major confidence boost). I also need to start "sticking it to the man" so other, similar risks versus society don't seem so difficult to me.
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