For Guys: Dating 'older' women

Fenny the Fox

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I don't see why you would feel bad about it or something. If you are interested in them, you are interested in them. What is the big deal about 2 to five years?


[I may be biased, i am dating someone 8-9 years older, so...]
 
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2-5 years is nothing.

My sister's first husband was five years younger than her - it didn't work out, but it had nothing to do with his age.

Also, I think a woman below 40 dating a younger guy is called a puma, not a cougar.

JD: if you like the guy, you better make your puma pounce on him before it's too late. ;)
 
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2-5 years is nothing.

My sister's first husband was five years younger than her - it didn't work out, but it had nothing to do with his age.

Also, I think a woman below 40 dating a younger guy is called a puma, not a cougar.

JD: if you like the guy, you better make your puma pounce on him before it's too late. ;)

Puma, like the shoes. Of course.


I knew a guy who liked a woman who was about three years older than him. She was in her thirties and he was in his late twenties. Seems to happen often these days. I guess it's never too late, lol.

I like guys who are older than me, but I'm sure that as I grow older, I'll be all over the younger ones. And cry. Because I'm old and eyeing the young 'uns.
 
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I know this is for guys, but as someone who has had younger guys ask her out.. I am uncomfortable with it.
I don't find it wrong - like if it were a friend of mine dating someone younger or just hearing about the age difference in general.

I just find it an odd thing for me.
 
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Say that a woman is about two to five years older than you, and you're totally interested in her.

Would you go after her or be creeped out and call yourself a cougar chaser?

5 years seniority does not a cougar make.

If I'm interested in her, it's probably because she takes care of herself and looks younger than she actually is. :)
 
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Jupiter is about 4.5 billion years. Doesn't look a day over 4.4 though.


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