Astrid1986
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My husband and I are each other's first partners so this issue doesn't apply to us. If my husband had had an ex, I'd probably allow him to keep in touch as long as he isn't flirting. I have a couple of guy friends on FB which my husband all knows about. (Most of my FB friends who are guys I dont'speak to, they just are on my friends list because of being admins for groups I belong to or because they're interested in my blog. I don't write personal posts on FB.) At one point I asked him where the boundaries are (because I was getitng a bit too close with an IRL guy acquaintance) and he explained that I could talk to guy friends about general stuff but not intimacy or the like or tell them what I was wearing or other such flirtational things. Anyway, if he wanted me to unfriend any of these fuy friends, I'd definitely do so. I know we'd need to talk over it, but if it's just his general insecurity, that'd be totally fine with me. I think it's quite unreasonable that your wife is deciding that she won't "play into" your insecurity, especially since she's betraying yoru trust in a way with ehr drinking excessively. I will be praying for both of you.
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