SirKenin
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remember Ephesians 5 tells us that a husband is to love his wife as Christ loved the Church AND gave His life for her. Notice the and....iow's He Loved the Church and HE gave HIs life for her as a demonstration of that Love. They are NOT one and the same. So define Love and after you define it, tell us please how Christ Loved the Church before and after the great demonstration of Loving her with his life?
What does laying down actually mean? Sacrifice. Not just dying in a literal sense, but sacrificing your needs for the greater good. In other words, don't do what serves you or her, do what serves the relationship.
So what is love? To understand it, here's what it isn't. If you see someone in need and you have the means but simply walk on past, you're not loving them. If you hate your brother, or a gay, or a muslim, you're a murderer, not a lover. If you don't make the sacrifices necessary to give your children the best chance of surviving in this world, you're a murderer, not a lover. If you don't provide, listen and fight the battles you're a murderer of your relationship, not a lover.
So that's what love isn't. Love is the antithesis of these things. Love is sacrifice. It's an ACTION. How can you show love? By being the warrior, the rock, the provider, the listener. By putting other's needs ahead of your own. By not needing her for ANYTHING.
How did Jesus show his love? The answer is in the question. ACTION. Words are meaningless. He overturned the tables of the money changers, he ate away at the power of the scribes and pharisees, he healed the sick, he tended to the poor, he hung out with the "sinners". He showed love by demonstrating what love looked like. He wasn't needy. He didn't need to be cuddled or placated in a forum. He didn't need to be reassured. He didn't need anything of anyone. He demonstrated by ACTION. He then paid the ultimate SACRIFICE through action.
What is the role of a woman in society? A woman spreads her medicine and healing to all around her. Your job as a man is to allow her to expand her reach beyond the narrow confines of your domicile. In the old days women would stay where it was safe, near the fire. The men went out and conquered new territory, making it safe for the woman to travel farther to spread their medicine/healing.
See how empowering that is? You have the power, you have the control over yourself, you create your destiny, you reap the rewards of your actions. Everything that happens in your life says something about who you are. If it's not working out, YOU have the power to change it...or whine about it.
We're not talking here. Words are meaningless. Women don't want to hear your words. They don't believe a single darn thing you say (nor should they, it's all rubbish). They believe what they SEE. And that demands ACTION.
I'm sorry, but if you want to get into the new age stuff, if that's what you're pushing for, it doesn't work, it's proven not to work and I'll thank you kindly for not going into a feminized version of "love".
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