I guess this feels like another one of those twilight-zone moments. I've been promoting neighbor-loving for several pages now. I'm quite sure anyone reading my posts would conclude that the thrust of my personal beliefs is that neighbor-loving is super-duper important to God. How can you then conclude that my personal beliefs (i.e. neighbor-loving) conflict with Christianity?
Because you put "neighbor-loving" on the level of being a substitute for belief in Jesus Christ and that goes against the Gospel as recorded in God's Word. How could I not conclude this based on what you've revealed about your beliefs? It's not that "neighbor-loving" itself conflicts with Christianity - it's your belief that "neighbor-loving" is the most important tenet in Christianity and is what makes one a Christian. You're wrong, according to God's Word.
If neighbor-loving really is enough to cause God to overlook faults in other areas (i.e. grace and forgiveness), then you lose all control to say who is the good guy and who is the bad guy. Losing control can be frightening, especially when it comes to faith-based issues.
It's not "enough to cause God to overlook faults in other areas". Where did you come up with that? Clearly from your own mind and not from Scripture. I'm not sure what "control" you're talking about, either. I have no "control" over any of this stuff, only God does.
Paul faced something similar when it came to circumcision. Some people wanted to say that anyone who wasn't circumcised was wrong with God and that they needed to be cut in order to get right. It was a relatively easy way to maintain a sense of control over the religion; rather than digging deep down into the heart of the individual to examine their personal motives, all one had to do was look under the guy's robe to know if he was good or bad.
It was the same with eating "unclean" food, celebrating special feast days, or any number of other religious observances. Taking those things away as indicators of good or bad means we need to look at other criteria and it means that we may need to accept people whom we previously would never have accepted (like the disciples had to accept the guy who preached outside of their understanding of what it meant to be a disciple).
These are some odd beliefs you have. They certainly aren't Biblical. But beyond that, they certainly have nothing to do with the topic in this thread. I think you don't understand the relationship between Law and Grace as the Bible teaches (i.e. the Old Covenant and New Covenant). Your beliefs are heterodox at best.
Just as I knew, you have zero proof, lol... I still didn't expect this terrible of a response, though! too funny!
I suspect you're thinking of Matthew 5:46 and I think you've misapplied the lesson to this situation. He never asks what good is it to love one's neighbor alone, as that question makes no sense.
He rebukes people who pretend that favoritism can be the same as neighbor-loving. Our neighbors include people who don't already love us. If we refuse to love them because of that, then we're not really neighbor-loving.
Or, in other words, if you only see the good in those who already agree with you, then what good is it? Every religious group in the world does that. Real spiritual maturity is able to recognize goodness in others even when they disagree with us.
He clearly juxtaposes neighbor vs. enemy in the scripture:
43 Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy.
44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;
He's clearly making the case for people to love not only their neighbors but also their enemies. Where you came up with all the other extra-biblical stuff you're saying is of no concern to me - it's your own fabrication. The Scripture is clear. If you want to fabricate back stories and rationalizations then be my guest, but you're not going to convince me (or anyone reading this) that your view is right in accordance with Christianity (i.e. God's Word).
That's what the parable of the wheat and tares is all about and it can work on different levels. A church may consist of good and bad members. An individual will have good and bad qualities. The parable seems to suggest that God already recognizes this but still, he indicates that we should have patience. If we go through trying to pull up all the weeds prematurely, then we'll end up damaging the wheat, too.
With the mormons we're not talking about Christian Churches because they are not Christians. I'm sure they have their own good and bad members as Christian Churches do as well, but that's irrelevant to this thread. Are you moving into a stage of trying to obfuscate the thread topic by introducing irrelevant ones?
There really are insincere people in the Mormon church, but then again that's true for any church. Trying to legitimize the weeds behind a wall of wheat won't last, even if it appears to work for a while. No amount of correct theology on behalf of the church organization can justify insincere individuals within the church.
Again, completely irrelevant to this thread...
The opposite is also true; no amount of wrong theology can condemn a sincere person within the church organization. Even in the Mormon church there will be some wheat growing among the tares, just like it is in the EO and OO churches. The point is that church membership in itself can never provide enough accurate information to judge the individual. For that, we must deal with the individual as an individual, just like Jesus did.
It's interesting that earlier on you talked about how to judge individuals and here you are talking about it again. It's just another sign that you are not involved in Christianity. In Christianity, we are not the judges of individuals. We don't look for them to be circumcised, we don't judge their dress or looks, we judge very little. The only thing we can go by is what they reveal to us. If someone has a true faith in Christ and expresses it then that person is seen as a Christian. But a person who expresses a faith that is not truly in Christ cannot be seen as a Christian and it's by that person's own profession.
You seem intent on making judgments on individuals based on their works - maybe that's what your religion is about. Your religion is one of many, many works-based religions. It's like a pagan religion - you expect people to earn their status or salvation through works, particularly "neighbor-loving". But the Bible teaches something different from your religion. Not sure what you want to believe or not but what you're expressing here is a religion that is foreign to Christians.