That does not work all of the time. A guy can ask out 20 women and get rejected 20 times even if they are interested in them. You can look into her eyes and listen and all of that stuff and then magically you will be in the friend zone and or rejected. The guys who don't call or listen tend to get the girl.
Well, reasonably if a man is interested in 20 women he is obviously not walking after wisdom. That sounds and looks like the pattern of desperation. A way of when we were children and could not control ourselves and our approaches.
No offense, but that is wisdom of the world that might work for a broken woman, coming from a wreck less man. That wisdom does not work for a daughter of God, a woman of true virtue. Have you not realized if Christ has completed you, the woman you seek will be complete as well and you will join as one. The women you will seek for will not be broken but whole in her God, upholding his love not perfectly but with growth and learning.
How else will you connect with a woman of God who is guarded by her God and his wisdom from the ravenous wolves that pose themselves? by ignoring her!!! Ha! That is exactly the definition of cowardice and pride, not love or leadership. This type of wisdom works for the broken woman who has been rejected, tormented and is comforted by such behaviors because she cannot except good. If she could, she would be in the love of Christ. That wisdom from a man to a broken woman is why he then ignores everything about her in a relationship, abandoning her, putting her down and for her just another repetition of her past.
Good attracts good, righteous love the delight of the righteous.
Evil attracts it's fruit of evil.
Behind a good man, is a good woman. And you know a man by the fruits of his family. Stay away from the wisdom of the world and their cowardice manipulations. That's why their relationships suffer beyond a disagreement which is normal.
Men, Be confident, controlled assertiveness, honest...and lighten up throw some humor your getting to know her, without any implications. Just let the boat go with river.....