ghendricks63
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I understand what you mean but since it's so different to what you hear in church it's hard to accept somehow. And I don't think that God advocates having multiples wives. The bible also says that a man will leave his parents and then be one flesh with his wife. I think that God simply tolerated many things in the old testament which were not really the way he liked it simply because the people didn't know it any better but I wouldn't conclude from this that one can have multiple wives like David.
/As for lusting
When you think this through then you could walk around on the street and look after every beautiful woman you walk by and imagine having sex with her and it would not be a sin because even if they are married then you cannot know this. The only thing which would be a sin would be to imagine sex with a married woman and everything else would not be a sin. But if you embraced lustful thoughts in such a way and thought about sex then your thoughts would become more and more unclean and you'd probably think about sex all day. I think this would not end good.
And the bible also says to only think about that which is pure. I dont think that imagining having sex with an imaginary woman or a real woman which isnt married is pure.
But I also think that lusting after a woman isn't adultery unless of course you are married. Taking what Jesus said and then saying if a teenager lusts after a classmate then he's committing adultery is totally silly and I don't think that Jesus meant that because he was talking about adultery and telling the people that adultery is not just cheating on your wife but already wanting to cheat on her without actually doing it. This also makes sense. The intention alone is already enough. But then saying everybody who lusts after a woman is an adulterer is reading more into the text than there is.
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I just looked up the verse and Jesus said everyone or whosoever. This sounds like he refers to anybody and not just married men otherwise he would have said every married man who looks at a woman with lust.
bible.cc/matthew/5-28.htm
You're still equating normal sexual thoughts with lusting. Remember...coveting is the same source. In the end it comes down to you. Live in the bondage of false teaching or embrace the freedom that proper scriptural understanding provides. You will always find those who tell you nearly anything and everything is a sin. Pay them no heed. For them it is sin because they believe it to be so. Whether you choose to live in freedom or stay in bondage is really a choice only you can make.
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