OK. So you say you saw Jesus, even though you have no idea what Jesus looked like, and you say that this alleged "Jesus" appeared to you, even though the Bible says that He reveals Himself through the preaching of His Word and not through extra-Biblical revelation, and even though Jesus, Himself, warned us "Then if anyone says to you, ‘Look, here is the Christ!’ or ‘There he is!’ do not believe it.
24For false christs and false prophets will arise and perform great signs and wonders, so as to lead astray"?
Finally, you say that this "Jesus'" message to you was that He loves you, but He said nothing about repentence, which He stated in Luke 5:32 is His purpose in calling sinners and He said absolutely nothing about the wrath of God He said abides on the wicked?
On the repentance issue, I think we need to repent of our "good" works as well as our "evil" works. I guess I'll describe this last "experience" I had, because that's what it was about.
A couple of months ago, I was extremely depressed. I felt like if Jesus existed then I would like to kick his butt. I felt like my whole life was designed to give me opportunities that I would squander so I could live with the knowledge of my failures. I was angry to think that I'm only 45 and might have to live another 40 years with my sole purpose to make other people feel good - "things might be bad, but at least I'm not a total loser like that cloudyday."
So I went to sleep and had a dream. There was a person made out of light in the distance. I had a dream with something like that light about 15 years earlier, and it had identified itself as "the devil". That first time "the devil" took me to a place where I could see the universe from the outside - like God. I could see the past and the future and everything made sense. I was begging "the devil" to let me stay there, but he told me I would go back to this dream life and hiding from the truth and not be able to remember anything he explained to me (because the concepts were too bizarre to comprehend in this normal state). But then he showed me myself in the future very old and bitter. At that time my life was going up instead of down, so I couldn't understand what could possibly make me that bitter. But now I have a better idea.
But this time the light instantly tackled me and pinned me on my back where I couldn't breath. All I could think was "I guess this is the end of me, and I'm getting what I deserve, sorry for making such a mess of my life, God." Then instantly the thing that was attacking me was gone and I could see a star in the sky with a smudgy light on the left and another smudgy light on the right. I was aware that I was in the middle of saying "Lord, have mercy".
The star in my dream was Jesus and His light and love was shining on me. I felt like being a little chipmunk in the woods coming out and there is my Creator to pat me on the head. It seemed like all the good and bad in my life was basically irrelevant to Jesus. He was looking past all that to see something hidden in me that He's really after. It reminded me of the parable about the treasure buried in the field or the pearl in the oyster.
Then it seemed like Jesus said I should follow Him, the star, and not the smudge on His left or the smudge on His right. The smudge on His left was rituals and the smudge on His right was Holy Spirit experiences (or something - that part was less clear). He said I should put 100% of my hope in His mercy and if I tried to strengthen my hope by adding something such as rituals or Holy Spirit experiences (or whatever), then I would be 100% off-target. It was like Jesus was saying "I am the Way the Light and the Truth - period". (These weren't words, but ideas that popped into my mind.)
So the whole dream was over in a couple of seconds - like a flashbulb. I woke up and was really happy for about a week. I know it could have been mental illness too, but that is the best "experience" I've ever had. Most of my "experiences" are negative.
I've thought about the message, and I don't think it was a condemnation of practices in denominations but a condemnation of how people like myself understand those practices. Also after seeing how Jesus seemed to feel about me, I can't imagine Him losing any of His sheep. It seems like He is going to gather everybody to Himself and take them through the gate. Probably everybody must discard everything they think they have after they die (such as good works, church rituals, spirituality, etc.) and then they can finally see the mercy of Jesus and enter heaven - like the camel going through the eye of the needle.
Also, I hope everybody takes this with a grain of salt. It could have been my imagination. I'm just trying to explain where I'm coming from in my concerns about church and practices.