When I first studied Orthodoxy, I fell in love with Maximos the Confessor. Not only is he a BRILLIANT mind as a saint, but his story of pain and suffering for Christ that made him a confessor rather than full-on martyr, it really was powerful to me. I loved him. So I considered taking Maximos as my chrismation name.
Then I told my mom about that, and despite her being a Catholic, she was still sad. She gave me the middle name "Joseph" as a baby and baptized me as Joseph. Father told me that he thought it to be something I might want to stick with or that Maximos would be fine, too. But I not only thought about how much I hated to disappoint my mom, but also that it was my name at baptism. I am unwilling to say my baptism as a Catholic was fruitless and empty. I believe it was a full "valid" baptism, and that I have been JOSEPH all these years. I've always admired St. Joseph, too. Then I thought about what a good step father he was.....guardian and caregiver to THE SON OF MAN! Then I thought about how much he respected his wife--the Theotokos. He remained pure upon marrying her all the way to his death. Good dad, good husband, good man!
It was an easy choice---Joseph all the way.
This Sunday I'll be "Reader Joseph" for the first time!