I think you need to remember that God loved us first. When we were still sinners. [Staff edit].
God's love is unconditional love. It is not based upon who we are, but the fact that we are His creation. Why would God create a creation that He did not love? Even in carnal thinking that doesn't make any sense. And if the Bible is true and God IS LOVE, then is it possible for God not to love?
1 John 4:9-11
9 This is how God’s love was revealed among us: God sent His one and only Son into the world, so that we might live through Him. 10
And love consists in this: not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.11 Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.
1 John 4:8
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Whoever does not love does not know God,because God is love.
There needs to become a point where you start looking at God's Word for what it says. Not create your own definitions for words to fit into your theology.