The context is about being reconciled while we were yet sinners. The setting may be towards the church then, but it also applies to all people today or do you think it was only directed at them? Remember; "God so loved the WORLD...that WHOEVER believes in him...."
The collective WE that Paul is talking about here, are the unsaved, not the WE of that church. Paul uses inclusive language so as not to offend anybody. It is consistent throughout his writings. A good example is when he refers to himself as the CHIEF of sinners. 1 Tim 1:15-16
Well this sub-forum is about Soteriology, and as such I'm sure most of us understand that the church is the church not the world. The fact is that not everybody who are True Believers believe in the election or reprobation. The T.U.L.I.P. doctrines are only supported by 5 point Calvinists, so that is who I direct my comments towards. I know they're 4 point and 3 point Calvinists, but at this point I haven't seen any in this thread.
The US Paul refers to is not the church but mankind. Paul never spoke in terms that were exclusive, but always in terms that were inclusive. He was the Apostle to the Gentiles and as such he was the one that pointed out that under the New Covenant there was no such thing as Jew or Gentile man or woman slave or free. That is definitely an inclusive gospel. It is directed at all who would believe. Salvation is brought about very plainly as Paul instructs in Romans 10:9-11.
I've no problem with what the scripture says about our being God's enemies before we were saved. I also understand that we can become God's enemy after we are saved if we don't obey and practice what he told us to do regarding loving one another, including our enemies, and His.
Paul and all the apostles directed their energies to the gospel to the entire world and the edification of the saints. It was not for the world though that they labored, but for the elect who they knew would obtain salvation.
With many scriptures is election taught, for example again this Paul the APOSTLE chosen by Jesus says,
(some dispute Paul claiming he is a false apostle on these forums)
2 Timothy 2:10
Therefore I endure all things for the sake of the elect, that they also may obtain the salvation which is in Christ Jesus with eternal glory.
That the 'elect' may obtain salvation. Before anyone is saved who will be saved, God has elected them to be saved and not others.
Elect here refers to those who will be saved in due time since God has chosen them to be saved.
If such persons were 'of the world' then they would be like Cain, of the evil one, of the earth, having Satan as their father.
Apostle Peter also in 2 Peter 3 describes these same persons Paul speaks of as the beloved elect that God is not willing any should perish but that all of the 'elect' come to repentance. The destiny of the elect is that they obtain salvation in Christ.
As far as Romans 11, you can not separate out the gentiles from this chapter, since the 'elect' of both the jew and the gentile obtain salvation and none else do. Salvation has gone out to the gentile world, and most of Israel God has hardened against Christ's gospel.
4 But what does the divine response say to him? “I have reserved for Myself seven thousand men who have not bowed the knee to Baal.”5 Even so then, at this present time there is a remnant according to the election of grace. 6 And if by grace, then it is no longer of works; otherwise grace is no longer grace. But if it isof works, it is no longer grace; otherwise work is no longer work.
7 What then? Israel has not obtained what it seeks; but the elect have obtained it, and the rest were blinded. 8 Just as it is written:
“God has given them a spirit of stupor,
Eyes that they should not see
And ears that they should not hear,
To this very day.”
Those blinded are not elect, God has put them spiritually asleep to the truth about Christ.
Romans 11 is speaking most generically about Israel versus the gentiles as people groups regarding salvation coming to the gentiles. But when their full number has been obtained (the foreknown elect of the gentiles), then God's mercy turns back to Israel and then they are saved at the end.
Regarding the blindness of the 'non elect' , who are perishing, who will never be saved, Paul teaches they are blinded in their minds by Satan, the 'god' of this world.
But for those who do become believers, God has shone His light into their hearts and so they then believe in Christ.
2 Corinthians 4New King James Version (NKJV)
The Light of Christ’s Gospel
1 Therefore, since we have this ministry, as we have received mercy, we do not lose heart.
2 But we have renounced the hidden things of shame, not walking in craftiness nor handling the word of God deceitfully, but by manifestation of the truth commending ourselves to every man’s conscience in the sight of God.
3 But even if our gospel is veiled, it is veiled to those who are perishing,
4 whose minds the god of this age has blinded, who do not believe, lest the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God, should shine on them.
5 For we do not preach ourselves, but Christ Jesus the Lord, and ourselves your bondservants for Jesus’ sake.
6 For it is the God who commanded light to shine out of darkness, who has shone in our hearts to
give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ.
My point is you have been indoctrinated into teachings which do not agree with the whole counsel of God.
That is something between you and the Lord, I wonder if you can believe what the scriptures say about these things.
That you made mention all people are children of God also points that out, while scripture tells us some are children of God, while others are children of Satan. Review the parable of the tares and the wheat, the sons of the kingdom, planted by the Lord, while the tares, the sons of disobedience, called by the LORD, the sons of the evil one are planted by the enemy, Satan.
Matthew 13
The Parable of the Tares Explained
36 Then Jesus sent the multitude away and went into the house. And His disciples came to Him, saying, “Explain to us the parable of the tares of the field.”
37 He answered and said to them: “He who sows the good seed is the Son of Man.38 The field is the world, the good seeds are the sons of the kingdom, but the tares are the sons of the wicked
one. 39 The enemy who sowed them is the devil, the harvest is the end of the age, and the reapers are the angels. 40 Therefore as the tares are gathered and burned in the fire, so it will be at the end of this age. 41 The Son of Man will send out His angels, and they will gather out of His kingdom all things that offend, and those who practice lawlessness, 42 and will cast them into the furnace of fire. There will be wailing and gnashing of teeth. 43 Then the righteous will shine forth as the sun in the kingdom of their Father. He who has ears to hear, let him hear!