I been through a lot in my life.. Some of the things I had experienced in my life wasn't easy and because of that I grew up with depression. Depression really killed my chances of making friends, understanding god, enjoying life. My father was a raging alcoholic..so through out the years I had to deal with the beatings he gave me and my mom.. when I finally was old enough to defend my mother and myself he started to stop. One day I remember asking him to come to my room..I cried in front of him and begged him to stop drinking how his drinking effected my life..He did but it wasn't easy.. When he started to change for the better I began to change for the worst. I remember when he would come into my room to try and talk to me and I would just tell him to get out. I almost acted like an enemy to him i guess it was because of everything I endured in the past that I am letting it out like this towards him. I dropped out of school started hanging out late and going to sleep around 5am everyday. One day I get a knock from the door and I open it only to have a police officer tell me that my father has commited suicide.. the moment those words came out of his mouth it felt like someone has gotten a sledge hammer and bashed me in the heart..After his death I became sick with the way I was. I knew I had to change so I started learning about depression (without the use of medication) I learned that depression cannot be diognosed in any medical way and that most of it was in your head..after months of struggle and relapse and more horrible emotions I finally started to noticed that I beat it. I changed my life for the better but still had more to learn since I had more emotions I had to beat..I ended up beating my anxiety attacks I used to have and also my shyness..Now I have friends who come to me for advice now. Right now I am struggling with something called Fear. I had Fear for a very long time and in the prayer thread I wrote about my mother being in the hospital because they think they may have found cancer but it's not certain until they have her tested today. Fear is really killing me right now but my mother made me promise her to be strong.. now As with everything i studied for in the past and beat this is one of the hardest emotions to beat especially when my mother is ill..My mother is very strong and I want to be as strong as her in life but I feel so weak right now emotionally..I want to know how God feels about people with fear...does he want someone to be strong? I'm so confused right now and desperate for help..It would make my life much more easier if I knew what God see's in the weak who fear and what he really want's us to be like. I hope you can pray for my mothers recovery and my fight with fear. Thank you all and I'm sorry if I made this post too long. :o