Well, I used to frequent these forums in the past, apologetics and theology ironically.
Anyway, I have drifted away from God. I don't fellowship at a church or hang around other Christians anymore. I don't read or pray/talk to God much either. I have developed a life and identity separate from it all. I have also developed a romantic relationship with a non-christian woman for the past couple years.
She has never been involved with Christianity herself, despite her families many urgings. When we met, I knew we both were doing our own thing and didn't feel too bad about it. Recently though she said out of the blue "I think i'd like to try and have a relationship with God" She wasn't sure about the whole thing but i knew she was of a seeking heart. I had the impression that she was seeing what i thought of it all. I was surprised and blew it off as a waste of time. Using my history as an authority on it. This also seemed to put her off and it wasn't spoken of again.
Now i can't stop thinking about it. I know that there is an opportunity for her to connect with God right now. My hesitation is selfish and part of me knows that by being so passive when i know better is not ok. My past self would have blasted me for even considering letting this fall to nothing.
Guess I'm torn with carrying on doing our own thing or reconnecting and inevitably having to change.
Anyway, I have drifted away from God. I don't fellowship at a church or hang around other Christians anymore. I don't read or pray/talk to God much either. I have developed a life and identity separate from it all. I have also developed a romantic relationship with a non-christian woman for the past couple years.
She has never been involved with Christianity herself, despite her families many urgings. When we met, I knew we both were doing our own thing and didn't feel too bad about it. Recently though she said out of the blue "I think i'd like to try and have a relationship with God" She wasn't sure about the whole thing but i knew she was of a seeking heart. I had the impression that she was seeing what i thought of it all. I was surprised and blew it off as a waste of time. Using my history as an authority on it. This also seemed to put her off and it wasn't spoken of again.
Now i can't stop thinking about it. I know that there is an opportunity for her to connect with God right now. My hesitation is selfish and part of me knows that by being so passive when i know better is not ok. My past self would have blasted me for even considering letting this fall to nothing.
Guess I'm torn with carrying on doing our own thing or reconnecting and inevitably having to change.