AoDoA
Brother, now we're getting some where. Please be honest the following responses!
the people who feel like they aren't good enough to be God's children
How does Calvinism make people feel "not good enough" to be God's children? Please explain.
well your doctrine teaches that God will not choose to save everyone does it not? so this could easily make a person look within and come to the conclusion that they are not one who God would ever consider saving...I realize you believe that God saves independent of any logical human reason but this still would be the natural reaction of a sinner IMO
not very inviting...you can't tell someone "God wants you" because you don't know if He actually does or not
the people who are turned off of Christianity because of the doctrine(if they are taught it when inquiring about Christ)
Please be specific, as I have not heard these things. What about the doctrine turns people away?
the fact that God wants some and not others...I know I am turned off by this and I can almost guarantee others would feel the same...I bet if I went out and did a survey I would verify my assumptions
the people who feel like they are better than others because they have been chosen
This is very interesting to me, because I sincerely believe that a person's doctrine will dictate how they live. My own belief teaches that God chose, from one group of wicked God hating and sin loving people, some to display his grace/mercy. Those whom he chose did nothing to earn such a grace, as they were no better than those not chosen. Therefore, a superior attitude would be inane. In fact, if I were to guess why he choose me, I would have to say, "he chooses the weak and foolish things of the world to shame the wise." But that's my belief. What of yours? Do you believe that he choose you because of something you did? If so, then isn't it you who have much to boast about? Isn't it you who should feel "better than another?"
if God selected you from a group of wicked sinners to be given His Spirit OBVIOUSLY you believe you have been elevated to a different superior status
the fact that the man who introduced the doctrine to the world had people killed who disagreed with him
Calvin and Servetus? What if I said, "the man who introduced what some call 'Calvinism,' but what you know as 'the Gospel,' to the world, was a Jesus hating murderer?" Would you believe me? Probably not. Nevertheless, its true. His name was Saul, but after an encounter with the risen Jesus, he came to be known as Paul. In his day, his own Jewish brothers didn't believe his doctrine cause they reasoned, "if he were truly of God, why would he teach this Christ?" Yet, like much of you here, they never sought to test what he actually said, namely his doctrine, to see if it were try. Instead, rather, they only used the man as a scapegoat so that they would not have to actually take the time to test what he taught. Its always easier that way.
Paul repented of his actions and suffered greatly because of them IMO(his future imprisionments)
did Calvin ever repent of his murderous ways?
the fact that Christians wear the name and refer to themselves based on another flawed man and not Christ primarily
If a man who adhered to any particular doctrine, and have his identity in that doctrine and not in Christ, he is in great error. I thank God that I personally do not know any person like that. Do you personally know people who would claim Calvinism before Christ?
lets say your doctrine is wrong(just for arguments sake) have you not put Calvinism before a truth of Christ?
the fact that Calvinist's consider God's created beings incapable of anything good and seem to almost hate humanity
Calvinist don't believe that. Men can do good. I know of many men who hate Jesus that do good for their fellow man. Calvinism does teach, however, that from God's perspective, man's good isn't good, but sin. Consider Isa 64:6..."your righteousness is as filthy menstruation rags," and Rom 14:23..."whatever is not of faith IS sin." As to your claim that Calvinism seem to hate humanity. If you were to just check our Christian history, you would come to see that it has been those who adhered to Reformed Theology, who has been the greatest of preachers, greatest men of prayer, men who left all to go be missionaries, start hospitals, write hymns, bring Jesus to countries where he is not known, etc., have all been, by and large, Calvinist. Again, a person's doctrine determines what kind of life they will live. Our history shows the fruits of a high theology, and at the same time, shows the fruits of a small theology. We live in the age of small theology.
I agree that our works are not considered good in the strictest sense towards God without Christ(all who are truly are in Christ are considered good before God)
I still think that good in a non-believer whether that person is to come to faith in Christ or not attains some type favor with God
the fact that the doctrine contradicts a boat load of scripture
Such as?
been through this over and over again...not posting it all now
the fact that it makes God out to be a brutal bully, not a loving Father
How so? In what way do you mean?
a God would would choose to spare some and not others when neither are worthy of being spared is an unfair God...Hes also brutal in that He would create man with the intention of Him falling only to glorify Himself with no regard for the men He MADE to be in conflict with Himself
the fact that it thinks we are incapable of searching after God and wanting to know God unless God makes that possible first
Have you not read, "No man can come to me, unless the Father draw him" (John 6:44)?
and I believe God is drawing and speaking out to ALL MEN in various ways(even through consequence of negative choices), even through the attributes of the natural created universe as stated in scripture
"so they are without excuse"
the fact that it takes away the amazing relational aspect of God's created beings with their creator
How so?
it makes the decision to choose Christ moot and ultimately His decision, making our love for Him only love for Himself...our loves becomes without meaning
the fact that its completely illogical and makes the creation seem pointless and void of any real meaning
How does Calvinism make creation seem pointless or void of meaning? How is it illogical?
as I stated above, if God only created to make all the decisions anyways then we are simply acting our a predetermined script and become nothing more then glorified theater
the fact that its naturalistic and blinds the eyes so they are incapable of uncovering some of the many nuanced intricacies about how the spirit realm is functioning
How so?
I'll get back to ya on this one, I'm having trouble finding the right words to express what I mean
the fact that it can be a stumbling block to people when they are first introduced to the doctrine and have to wonder if they could serve a God who would do such things(from personal experience)
This I agree with! Everyone is born understanding scripture from a freewill perspective (even those who never come to Christ see it this way). It is the grace of God - and only His powerful Grace - that can change us to see it from his perspective. But I just made a claim that I cannot prove, UNLESS of course, we would let scriptures talk instead of our sincere emotions.
this is a very powerful statement you have made...you have admitted that we are BORN with an understanding of freewill based on scripture
is this why Calvinist's consider themselves to be "born again" because they have rejected their gut understanding of scripture in favor of a doctrine of man
without the doctrine of Calvinism no one would come to this conclusion on their own(well I suppose Calvin did so this is not completely accurate either)
God's word does NOT lead to a Calvinistic understanding of it in most(I would say thats accurate) without being further expounded by extra biblical sources
very powerful statement indeed
the fact that it rely's on rhetoric and most of its adherents don't even seem to understand what the doctrine means
You're making a lot of claims here; and under the guise of "facts." In what way do you feel Calvinist do not understand what the doctrine means?
I've seen this countless times myself...I've asked Calvinist's to explain their position and what their doctrine means and what they believe and they seem unable or unwilling to pinpoint without referring to wordy, rhetoric laced documents written by mere men what they believe
it creates confusion in the believers heart where they are not even sure what they believe
How so?
if you know deep down that you really don't know what you understand and are reliant on what others tell you is true that would create confusion...especially when asked to explain your positions
the fact that I feel a separation from some of my brothers and sisters in that I feel as though we aren't even on the same wave length and not within the same Spirit because we are worshiping 2 very different perceptions of God
God saves apart from ability to grasp theological truth, but ANY and EVERYONE who repents and trust in the Savior. Therefore, it is your duty, and mine, to LOVE ALL the brethren! And never forget, "the Lord's servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, correcting his opponents with gentleness.God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth, and they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil, after being captured by him to do his will" (2Ti 2:24-26). Now while the verse is in context of witnessing to unbelievers, I am making an application. We are to be patient, not quarrelsome, but kind and able to teach our opponents (whether Christian or Non-Christian), only then - if we do these things - God may be pleased to use us to bring truth to the person we are talking with.
If a believer's attitude or aim in arguing a point is simply to bring attention to themselves, or be seen by others, they will have their reward. They will have what they seek, but like everything else, it will not last. ONLY what is done for Jesus' glory will last. Therefore, if our motivation in arguing a point is done to bring honor and glory to God, and benefit his people, God will use it and the person will recieve his reward. Even if the believer is wrong in is understanding, and desires God's glory and his brother's benefit and growth, God will bring that person to the truth. Therefore it is extremely important to be humble!
I'm skipping this one
the fact that I believe it can be an excuse for people to choose the path of destruction and give up(it creates a sense of hopelessness)
"The fact that I believe" is an oxymoronic statement that aside. That's EXACTLY what the Apostle Paul had to deal with in his day. When he taught grace as I understand it, people were claiming that "it would lead to careless living." But to the person who understands grace, will be motivated "by the mercies of God, to offer themselves as a living sacrifice." You see, if you understand grace, you won't live right in order to try to get into a good standing with God, but you will live right because "its your reasonable sacrifice." Our motivation for obedience is simply because he loved us, now we want to love him back. As scriptures teach:
"For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age..." (Tit 2:11-15).
what I'm talking about is careless living because they believe they are hopeless and have not been chosen from God so "why bother being good at all since I"m damned for hell anyways"
one of the reasons it turned my stomach so much when I first was introduced to these beliefs is that the girl I love was convinced that she was just evil and incapable of good, unwanted by God, unlovable, a child of the dark even though shes a soft spoken, gentle beautiful human being who I love like I have never loved anything else before the thought of a naive doctrine re-enforcing this feeling within her enraged me...the thought of losing this beautiful star over a pompous "know it all" yet in actuality knows nothing, hate filled doctrine was almost too much to take luckily I think shes finally starting to believe in herself so I best not think back on painful memory's
Why did Calvinism lead you to believe that God did not love your old girlfriend, or that she was not wanted by God? In your own words, what does Calvinism teach?
it did not lead me to believe that God did not love my GF, it made me to fear that she felt this way in part because of this doctrine