Danoh,
Thanks for your reply and support.
So your understanding of why the remnant believing Jews did not "participate" or embrace the Grace message Paul was teaching is because they didn't think it would be long before the Lord returned?
As I consider this whole question, I'm putting myself in the place of a 34-60 AD Jewish believer: I know what the 12 have been teaching about looking forward to the Day when my sins will be blotted out, Jesus will return and the promises made to my people will all be fulfilled (per Jeremiah 31 among others).
Maybe I, as a Jew, am so content with the knowledge that my Messiah has come, died for my sins, and yes, I did repent and was water baptised as Peter taught us. Someday soon (as I'm being taught) He will return and made all things right - I feel no need to embrace Brother Paul's message of "the new creature in Christ" and "One new man" etc. I think for salvation to come to the Gentiles is great, but I view Paul's message as being for them, and not for me.
I have Jewish friends who are assisting in the work of the ministry with Paul, Barnabas and the rest, so it's not like we reject Paul or this "new message, this Mystery" he's been teaching. It's more like
we don't feel the need to embrace it, because after all we are Chosen. And OUR Messiah has come. And now all we need do to obtain our promises is wait a little while.
This is, BTW the position my husband pretty much has come to. We've been wrassling with this for a couple weeks now, LOL. At first he was stumped but we've been studying it together. Yesterday after our meeting, I present the original question to our pastor. He admitted he's thought of this before and it's a bit of a head scratcher, but believes it has something to do with Rom 11:29 in that the gifts and calling of God are without repentence. That didn't quite get it for me, but I think it is a factor to consider.
I went so far as to email Richard Jordan for his thoughts. If I ever hear back from him, it will probably be a miracle.