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28th December 2003, 12:46 PM
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Hi, This day and age if a man is a virgin he is looked down at as a nut or something must be wrong. In the U.S. today the people think Men should go around and have sex with every woman and not stay a virgin. I'm 43 and still a virgin. I've never been married.
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28th December 2003, 07:31 PM
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I agree staying pure is hard...for either sex. It is not only men who face the pressures and assumtions of this society and world. I say good for you, and may God give you the strength you need to remain pure. By the way, I have you beat...48 years and counting!!*S* |
28th December 2003, 07:45 PM
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Reps: 23,490,104,222,888 (power: 23,490,104,231) | | | i think its good,i sometimes worry that the guy i meet to be my partner will have lost his virginity because if i marry say in my late 20s to a guy of the same age i feel that many guys even christian guys have lost their virginity by then,especially since many may not have been committed christians in their youth. |
28th December 2003, 08:01 PM
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Reps: 1,993 (power: 13) | | | Wow, that is great, that you have waited so long. I thought I was waiting a long time (I was 24 the first time, which was with my husband - who was only my fiancee at the time) I waited for the right guy, just not at the right time. |
28th December 2003, 08:03 PM
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Reps: 1,993 (power: 13) | | Originally Posted by cutekid 4 Jesus i think its good,i sometimes worry that the guy i meet to be my partner will have lost his virginity because if i marry say in my late 20s to a guy of the same age i feel that many guys even christian guys have lost their virginity by then,especially since many may not have been committed christians in their youth.
My husband was 24 and his first time was with me. There are guys around, probably not as many virgins in their 20s as there used to be though. |
28th December 2003, 08:45 PM
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Reps: 12,466 (power: 22) | | | Thats awesome that you have waited that long. I wish I could say the same. But when we come to Christ we are made new again. dont know if that means anything to anyone but it sure means somethin to me!
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28th December 2003, 09:51 PM
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Reps: 576 (power: 0) | | This is cool. Christians and non-Christians are supposed to be like light is to darkness, and this thread sure proves it! You think you could go to a party where drunk non-Christians are arguing about who is the oldest virgin? 
I'm a virgin at 26, but I'm not proud to say that my purity and innocence has not always kept me....at the weakest moments of my life where I felt I would give into my temptations just so I feel loved, I realised that God had already saved me from falling into temptation. God in all his wisdom made me very very ugly. Us really average joes don't get a lot of girls throwing themselves at us.  |
28th December 2003, 11:08 PM
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Reps: 1,993 (power: 13) | | Originally Posted by Injured Soldier This is cool. Christians and non-Christians are supposed to be like light is to darkness, and this thread sure proves it! You think you could go to a party where drunk non-Christians are arguing about who is the oldest virgin?
I'm a virgin at 26, but I'm not proud to say that my purity and innocence has not always kept me....at the weakest moments of my life where I felt I would give into my temptations just so I feel loved, I realised that God had already saved me from falling into temptation. God in all his wisdom made me very very ugly. Us really average joes don't get a lot of girls throwing themselves at us.
I don't believe anyone is ugly. Everyone has something attractive about them. I think when you fall in love with someone's insides, then the outside becomes attractive. Well that is what I have found anyway. |
29th December 2003, 02:30 AM
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29th December 2003, 03:20 AM
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Reps: 17 (power: 0) | | I am a virgin, that is if a few "close encounters" doesn't count, and I have certainly had great desire to be with women on a very frequent basis, but have kept it under control for the right one.  | | |
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