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Unread 19th October 2013, 02:14 PM
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Kink in christian marriage

I was discussing with a few friends the concepts of sex in a christian marriage when the concept of kink came up and whether or not it was acceptable. NOw we are talking BDSM, dom/sub, toys, etc.

What do the rest of you think about this?
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Unread 19th October 2013, 03:25 PM
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Consensual sexual activity between adults?

No problem there. Kinks are OK as long as everyone consents and no one is hurt (as in physical or emotional pain that is not wanted or agreed upon beforehand).
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Unread 19th October 2013, 03:26 PM
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Whatever floats your boat, buddy.
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Unread 19th October 2013, 06:45 PM
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This should be a fun thread.

One of the most entertaining things I've found on the internet is articles on very proper Q&A Christian sites about the use of sex toys. You wind up with an image of angels using dildos on each other at God's feet, the way they talk about it.
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Unread 19th October 2013, 06:50 PM
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its all beautiful and wonderful to express yourself to your partner in sex

I say go for it and then some!
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Unread 19th October 2013, 10:34 PM
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I think that some people are naturally submissive and some are naturally dominate,

if these people get married, it makes sense that it would be a part of their entire life...
including in the bedroom
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Unread 20th October 2013, 05:40 AM
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I would be cautious to overindulge in any manner of sexual action. But I do not think it is important that I interfere with the sex lives of others...

But, if one's sexuality becomes a dominant feature in one's life, simply because it is now 'heterosexual sex' does not mean that it is somehow now a glorious affair.
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As a christian whos married theres nothings wrong with being kinky. However there are still some things that are not acceptable. If you include kids or animals. If you watch porn while having sex (not that you should watch porn in general). No anal. Aside from that anything is valid.
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Lets just agree to disagree.
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Unread 20th October 2013, 08:27 AM
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wow since when does kinky involve kids or animals? you might need to work on your definitions. and what is your issue with anal?
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Anal is barely even kinky anymore.
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