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Would you marry a drug addict?



Would you marry a drug addict who had no intention of stopping?


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Unread 16th October 2013, 10:13 AM
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no Now if he was HONESTLY trying to stop I would work with him but would not marry him unless and until he got clean.
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Unread 16th October 2013, 10:19 AM
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Would you marry a drug addict who had no intention of stopping?

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Why would anyone in thier right mind, decide to marry a drug addict ? That should be an automatic red flag. And no...love is not enough for a marriage to work ... it is only a start. You need a whole lot more than just those feelings . Some mandatory things for a marriage to work include : Huge responsibility, integrity, commitment, steady employment, deep personal relationship to God , no neurosis, good emotional health, being on the same wavelength for the future, strong morals , strong ethics, same goals, as a minimum. Entertaining a Drug Addict for marriage is not Gods plan for your life -- he desires two people who are are emotionally and spiritually mature . Please dont consider marrying anyone who shows a red flag like this. You are far better off on your own.
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Unread 16th October 2013, 10:44 AM
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are you a druggie OP?

seek help mate.
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Unread 16th October 2013, 12:36 PM
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Nah.

I've had to fight addictive behavior a lot in the past, I wouldn't want to live with someone else who was in the grips of addiction.
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A woman addicted to drugs would be worse than a woman that shops all the time. So no.
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No! I wouldn't date anyone who did drugs either.
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Unread 16th October 2013, 02:17 PM
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I understand addiction. I have an issue with Tramadol but I want to stop.Its not really an anti social drug. I'm not robbing to get it its prescribed. It doesn't really impact my moods and temper either.

However, if i met a chap who had substance abuse issues/anti social issues/mood issues and no intention to stop no i wouldn't want a long term relationship.
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i'll add to that though that more often than not love is not a rational thing. Most of us just kinda.. fall into it and all caution is thrown to the wind.
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Would you marry a drug addict who had no intention of stopping?


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No I would not.
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