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Old 22nd August 2013, 01:49 PM
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Originally Posted by TheyCallMeDavid View Post
So then, there were plenty of confirmations from the H.S. as you moved forward from your intial contact , emailing, and in person meetings ? How long was it till you met in person ... and how long was it after that till you got married ? Thanks for sharing.
About 5 weeks we had first meeting then
3 months we were married
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Originally Posted by pointman7a View Post
About 5 weeks we had first meeting then
3 months we were married
With that very short time duration, both would have to know that they are getting clearcut confirmations from the Lord to move ahead for marriage . Ordinarily, I would say that the time period you mentioned is a recipe for a very risky lifelong commitment. But im glad it worked out well for you both and i trust you have a successful good working Marriage .
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I was a member of both Match and Harmony at the same time for 5 years with nothing resulting. I was just a member recently of Christian Mingle (3 months) and nothing. No one wants anyone with "baggage" and even though I manage very well, I am disabled...and seemingly no one on those sites is interested. I was thinking of trying a disabled-person site next--if I try anything again.

I've been alone for 20 years. Guess I'll be ok.
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Originally Posted by drjean View Post
I was a member of both Match and Harmony at the same time for 5 years with nothing resulting. I was just a member recently of Christian Mingle (3 months) and nothing. No one wants anyone with "baggage" and even though I manage very well, I am disabled...and seemingly no one on those sites is interested. I was thinking of trying a disabled-person site next--if I try anything again.

I've been alone for 20 years. Guess I'll be ok.
It's hard when you are disabled, I had 2 strokes but able to do things on my own but the opposite sex just don't give you a chance according to my other single divorce friends.
I am separated and divorce is pending but one day hope I find the right person who accepts me for who I am.
I need to focus on myself as I am a very new convert to Christianity from Islam and my marriage was an arranged marriage in fact the first time I met him was on the wedding day, looking back now that was a mistake.
Getting to know someone even distance relationships are good in a way because you get to have the feel of the person and when ready it would be an exciting time to meet for the first time. I regret marrying as an arranged marriage, we are two different people and he never will never accept my conversion and he said that he cannot be married to someone who had 2 strokes even though I am doing the best I can.
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Originally Posted by drjean View Post
I was a member of both Match and Harmony at the same time for 5 years with nothing resulting. I was just a member recently of Christian Mingle (3 months) and nothing. No one wants anyone with "baggage" and even though I manage very well, I am disabled...and seemingly no one on those sites is interested. I was thinking of trying a disabled-person site next--if I try anything again.

I've been alone for 20 years. Guess I'll be ok.
We all have the freedom to decide how much 'baggage' we are willing to entertain in Another..and we all come with some. Ive made up a list of 'cannot haves' when considering a romantic one on one committed relationship... and a somewhat varying 'cannot have' list for those i choose to be Friends only with . I think applying objectivity to who we allow in our lives is a good thing , and id rather be patient and on my own than enter into some sort of a toxic Friendship or Relationship simply because i yearn for companionship as a Christian Single. Thats where a deep dynamic personal relationship with Christ becomes so satisfying because it eliminates a state of desperation and hence, is a good place to be coming from.
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