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Old 21st September 2012, 04:01 PM
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had a miscarriage a week ago

last few weeks i was in and out of the hospital for bleeding and a week ago tomorrow they couldnt find i a heart beat so they said we can check again on wed well the dr checked still no heart beat and that night i lost it well i had some pain yesterday and dr says i need a d&c but wants to wait till monday by monday i will be 2 days shy of 2 weeks past the miscarriage im really worried about an infection setting in. need prayers,
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Old 21st September 2012, 04:09 PM
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last few weeks i was in and out of the hospital for bleeding and a week ago tomorrow they couldnt find i a heart beat so they said we can check again on wed well the dr checked still no heart beat and that night i lost it well i had some pain yesterday and dr says i need a d&c but wants to wait till monday by monday i will be 2 days shy of 2 weeks past the miscarriage im really worried about an infection setting in. need prayers,
I am very sorry to hear that, super mom. That must be so terribly difficult to cope with.

You will be in my prayers.
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Old 21st September 2012, 11:03 PM
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its really hard when my husband is not being very supportive
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Old 22nd September 2012, 02:42 AM
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its really hard when my husband is not being very supportive
Men sometimes grieve in a different way from women. They may well turn inwards, and not show very much, but this does not mean they feel less than we do. He also may not understand the impact this is having on you, because you will be dealing with all sorts of hormonal changes as well as the emotional effect.

It is a time for each of you to be as considerate and loving of the other as you can manage, when you are hurting so much you will each want the other to be considerate, without having to make an effort yourself because you can't; that is only natural. It is so terrible to lose a child, of whatever age. I am very sorry.

When you go for the D&C, maybe you could ask if there is any way to know whether it was a boy or a girl. Then you can give your lost child a name if you want to, and connect to it a little better. If you can't know that, then choose a name that would suit either. It may help to have a name, in years to come.
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Old 23rd September 2012, 11:01 AM
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the baby has already passed its just small stuff left and hes said some pretty mean stuff
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Old 23rd September 2012, 07:26 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss and everything else you are having to go through now. I'm praying for you. Maybe get as close to Jesus as you can by having conversations with him throughout the day. God bless you dear heart.
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im trying i really am just hurts so much when the one thats being mean
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Old 25th September 2012, 03:17 PM
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I know it's hard and scary too when someone is being mean. Do you have a pastor you could go to or a counselor? I've been married to mean men, too. Eventually I had to get away from them but it took me a real long time because I had no support. My mother finally helped me to get my own place. Are your relatives any help to you? I care very much and hope you keep on expressing yourself here. God bless you.
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im trying i really am just hurts so much when the one thats being mean
How are you doing now, super mom? You are in my prayers.

God be with you.
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im ok just tired. God has healed me physically but emotions r unstsable and we r going to marriage counseling twice a month
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