How to get over a girl?

So I was recently broken up with by my girlfriend. We had been together as a couple for 3 years, but have been inseparable for about 4-5 years. She was my first everything. I was never into the whole, "oh you like me, let's date" scene in middle school and high school. It wasn't until my Junior year that I ever had strong feelings for someone. From the first time we met, I knew there was something special. Never had I connected with someone like this before and I felt like she was everything that completed me.
For a year and a half we were the best of friends and spent all of our time together. As time passed, we grew stronger and eventually decided to be girlfriend and boyfriend. She was my first girlfriend, my first kiss and my first love. I can remember every detail of our relationship because each moment I spent with this girl was a blessing. After about 2 years of dating, I honestly felt like I knew she was the girl I was meant to spend the rest of my life with. I was young and knew there was still a long time before this would come. I treated her like the princess she really was and sacrificed everything just to put a smile on her face every day.
Just over a month ago, all this came to a grinding halt. Blindsided and shocked, she told me she no longer wanted to be my girlfriend. I felt the life get sucked out of me and had no idea how to deal with the issue. What made it so hard is I have no idea as to why she did this. The very day before things were ended, we spent the best day together, better than any day we have ever had together. It was the best day we had in our 5 year history. We laid on a blanket looking up at the stars and she told me how happy I made her and how she could not have asked for a better day and she was so happy to have me in her life.

How could so much change overnight? I asked for an explanation but never got a real answer. She removed my number from her phone, blocked any form of communication with me and erased me from her life the next day. So now I sit here, distraught and heat broken, not knowing what happened and how to pick up the pieces and move on. I don't know how I can ever trust someone with my heart again, or how I am supposed to get over a girl I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with.

I really don't know what to do, and it has been weighing heavily on me :'( I need help and don't know where else to turn.

First off, I'm sorry for you losing a girl who sounded like she was the world to you. A lot of thing's could have happen. She may have just thought that maybe she was uncertain on the direction she felt she was going with you. I'm not jumping to conclusions, I'm just giving you a example.

I don't like the fact that this girl is not giving u a reason why she broke up with you. If there was something that maybe she was not liking u think she would have been willing to at least tell you what that was.

As for getting over her, u will eventually. I have loved this girl named Melissa for going on a year now and I made her upset a while ago and now she won't ever talk to me again. I was heartbroken and I did cry but now when I look back on it, the way she was treating me wasn't the best, nor did I treat her well. I try and just forget everything and just look and see what i still currently got.

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sorry to hear that man. about a year ago my high school sweetheart and i broke up. she cheated on my after three years at a party her first week in college. i was heartbroken and confused. it took me a while to get over it but eventually i realized, like DevonR said, that she wasnt treating me that well. after being in a committed relationship for so long it feels nice to be single and focus on the Lord. you have to learn to be content with status. paul tells us to remain as we are. you are single, so remain single. God will put someone even more special into your life and will let you know if that is His Will for you. try not to worry. i know this probably sounds like a lot of garbage right now. i know how it feels man. You gotta just pray man. Let God's presence overtake you man. honestly, listening to the band Red helped me out a lot. great christian band with awesome music. go through their albums. GL brother.

Sorry about that bro :/ I know that must be both devasting and extrmely hurtful! You obviously really cared for her and you wanted to have a future with this woman. The fact tat you made an effort to treat her right and respect her like a princess just goes to show how much you cared for her.

Honestly, there could be a lot of reasons why she left you. It's not properfor her to have left you hanging and not give you a real reason why she did that(especially, as you say, you had a good day with her prior to the break-up).

I could think of a few reasons why she must have done that, though: 1) She lost an emotional feeling and based her decision on her emotions, 2) she cheated on you, or 3) her own personal reasons(whatver they are).

My advice to you would be to pray, focus on the Lord, and take some time off from dating. You will eventually find a great woman if that is the Lord's will for you.

From experience most likely there is another guy involved. Look she has initiated a no contact with you. You have your own dignity so man up and know that she will contact you. Don't call her or any contact with her! She will CONTACT you 1st. Right now it's hard yes and God will heal you. Yes it takes time but there is an obvious lesson in this and God will REPAY you back as long as you let him. From experience you guys might have been getting close to a deeper level and this happened. Basically God is protecting you from a BIG mistake you where about to make. Which might mean she was NEVER the right one ONLY God knows. She will call and honestly if another guy is involved things won't be the same but if not then see what happens. But for now a lot of crying, prayers to God, and see what God is teaching you or trying to protect you from. She is going to call, that's how girls are but PRAY for direction and WAIT.