I think if someone has never had sex they may not understand what it's all about.
If they have had sex and now they're not all that interested, be they male or female, I agree with another poster who advised having testosterone or estrogen levels checked just to make sure all is well. A healthy libido is part of good health overall.
If men at work are talking about sex or any topic someone finds objectionable or morally offensive, there's a very easy solution. Leave the area.
A lot of women who stand to overhear such talk do often eavesdrop on such things just to get a feel for who they're working with or for. The guy who makes it clear he's not into loose uncommitted relationships, will usually catch the eye of that woman who's looking for a serious decent guy. (Same goes for women of course in the reverse)
I'm a female in the asexual spectrum. So I've termed myself. I never will care about sex unless or until my hormones change or I change my medications. But except for my teen years, sex was never really important to me. Mainly I did and do sometimes still feel pressured to "do it" to satisfy other people. But really I think I could go the rest of my life without ever doing it again.
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well although im not like you, in what i want . i always have respect for people who want just simply love and a relationship. ill admit relationships have no interest to me for i dont desire to love nor beloved. if i didnt have such a high sex drive id prob not even sleep with randoms. Your values are very traditional n respectful in nature.
n us guys like to brag about our latest hook up like a women stereotypically would scream . oh my god i found 3 pairs of shoes at a sale at wherever.... Not saying its always good we act this way but nor is it bad we all have primal needs that must be met.'some jus more then others
10.00 to midnight... you don't mean a straight two hours ..Lol. probably stopping and starting again.
Well, in our belief system, it is a far more diverse act, not simply the copulation, but also the kissing, caressing, massaging, sensual loving, intimate, being naked together, communicating, passionate sharing . . . no starting and stopping, but rather a long series of deep soul binding bliss.
You know, the way God intended making love to be, before humans mucked it up by men treating it as conquest and women treating it as currency.
Some men wear their conquests as a badge of honor and looked upon as a stud.
Women try to tap it down and are looked upon as a woman of low morals.
As I understand it, cultural attitudes are changing. The younger generations view men who are promiscuous as "s-l-u-t-s" (avoiding counterproductive profanity filter), along with similar women. I was surprised when I first heard about that.
eudaimonia,
Mark
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Not every man desires a committed relationship, just like you don't desire to sleep around with various women. I don't see any reason to look down on people who just want a frivolous sex life. It's also possible to be in a committed relationship and sleep around with many other women on the side.
It's alright to view people as objects sometimes, you need variety in life lol.
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guys have sex on the mind 24/ 7 its the way there are. me sex isnt importanant and I am a girl
I don't have sex on the mind 24/7. I've been celibate for 9 years now. Doesn't bother me in the least.
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Of course not. In fact, thinking you're the only sensible guy based solely on a handful of personal experiences isn't sensible in the first place.
I am constantly surrounded by other male coworkers at my job who talk relentlessly about having sex with other women, and all this disgusting crap.
To echo others, why is it disgusting?
I don't see why it's such a motivating prospect. Why is sexual gratification so desirable for certain people?
Why is money so desirable for certain people? Why is religion so desirable for certain people? Why is chocolate so desirable for certain people?
Personally, I am just hoping to meet a girl that I can establish a genuine relationship with. I just want love. Companionship.
And for many, sex is a big part of a genuine romantic relationship. And sometimes, just plain old sex can lead to a genuine relationship.
Sex is not a priority at all for me.
That's cool. But keep in mind that it is for many people.
It will never be. I don't understand how some people are so consumed by it. I just don't know. Too many people nowadays are looking for somebody to sleep with, rather than finding somebody worth waking up too.
Why present it as an either/or proposition? Can't someone be looking for both?
Am I weird for not caring about sex?
Weird, no, but probably in the minority.
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you don't mean a straight two hours ..Lol. probably stopping and starting again.
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