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I'm making this thread so you can all cheer me up.
I'll make a long story short.
>>Met this girl last year.
>>Had on and off thing with her.
>>Started growing closer this year.
>>Sent her flowers and stuff.
>>Totally crushing on her for a long time, and hard.
>>Find out today that in the last month she had started dating some dude.
>> Not even a peep to me about it.
>>Also found out that the guy she dated revealed to her that he was married with two kids.
>>Now she is all sad too.
>> Two sad, heartbroken people.
What do, /f137?
We all feel sorry for a minute, hug it out, and the post nice uplifting things in this thread!
I'm making this thread so you can all cheer me up.
I'll make a long story short.
>>Met this girl last year.
>>Had on and off thing with her.
>>Started growing closer this year.
>>Sent her flowers and stuff.
>>Totally crushing on her for a long time, and hard.
>>Find out today that in the last month she had started dating some dude.
>> Not even a peep to me about it.
>>Also found out that the guy she dated revealed to her that he was married with two kids.
>>Now she is all sad too.
>> Two sad, heartbroken people.
What do, /f137?
We all feel sorry for a minute, hug it out, and the post nice uplifting things in this thread!
first, here's your obligatory hug-->
ok let's get down to business. i'm not one of these types who pacify you & sprinkle platitudes just to avoid the real problem. the problem here is you. and her. don't get me wrong, you are a good looking guy that seems to be personable & warm but this girl who broke your heart friend zoned you long before you gave her flowers.
her problem is she wants to have her cake & eat it, too. she didnt tell you early on that it was nothing more than friendship because your company was her collateral for moments such as these. in a way, you both used each other emotionally. you projected this fantasy scenario where you get the girl in the end & she played into it secretely knowing that you'd be good as the sort of guy to tell all her boyfriend problems to. do you get where i'm going here?
add to the fact that this girl got her heart broken by a married man with kids clearly indicates she has self esteem & boundary issues. truth is she is neither a friend or the girl whom you hope that if you stck around long enough she would change her mind. no my friend, this girl is only one thing & that is she is bad news. avoid her & your life stays drama free. sure it hurts & your pining away for her now but you'll get over it. i promise you, you will. real talk.
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Last edited by zoebliss; 25th June 2012 at 02:02 PM.
Okay, there's some seriously issues with your problem here, but for now I'll give you that hug you need.
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OK, even if you don't want to be that ruthless (and risky) don't be there for her. She wasn't there for you this whole time, she does not value you. You deserve better than to be her side-hammer.
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Do not add to His words, or He will rebuke you and prove you a liar.
- Proverbs 30:5-6
Wish I could help...Will a picture of my adorable dog cheer you up?
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