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14th June 2012, 03:00 PM
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Well it should. Afterall, the Church itself ordained same-sex marriage as a Christian Rite for hundreds of years.
But one actor's opinion doesn't mean the Church will or have to. | 
14th June 2012, 03:04 PM
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"If the Church is going to move forward and remain relevant, it has to move with the times"
Emphasis mine. He never issued a decree ordering a change in the church's position. Rather, he pointed out a fact: the church can't move forward if it drags its heels on this issue. You might disagree with that assessment, but even so, he never made a demand.
Glad I'm not the only one to notice that.
I disagree with him however. to me reading between the lines he seems to be saying the Church should FOLLOW the current trend. Any group that always follows soon becomes irrelevant.
The Church has a hard task here. Either staying in the past or following the trends of the times create problems for them. | 
15th June 2012, 02:15 AM
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Of course they are. And they're free to disagree with marriage between two guys. But they shouldn't use said disagreement to influence secular law, and they are hurting their future membership by doing so. Where exactly is the line where the church is or isn't allowed to inject it's opinion?
At the boundary between church and non-church. Is the church allowed to speak out on issues relating to family and morality?
Speak, yes. Influence secular law, no.
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15th June 2012, 04:13 AM
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15th June 2012, 07:09 AM
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Reps: 161,254,479,754,336 (power: 161,254,479,755) | | Originally Posted by Skaloop Of course they are. And they're free to disagree with marriage between two guys. But they shouldn't use said disagreement to influence secular law, and they are hurting their future membership by doing so.
At the boundary between church and non-church.
Speak, yes. Influence secular law, no.
What's the point of speaking if you're not supposed to influence?
This issue should raise questions about USA homosexuals' sincerity for so-called "equality," but it doesn't because of the media. When Obama got elected, he proposed federal legislation regarding civil unions which would bring "equality" according to tax laws, hospital visitations, etc. The gay community quietly opposed him and the media never reported. If gays really wanted "equality" in the US, they could've had it already. Instead though, they're now just fighting over semantics, aka the word "marriage."
FYI Secularism is a worldview. Just like Christianity. Why does one worldview automatically have the moral high ground over another just because it's devoid of God? In the USA, people don't understand pure democracy. They shove separation of church and state (which isn't in our constitution) down our throat and dismiss voting and representation.
We voted on this issue in CA and because gays didn't like the results it's being appealed to the Supreme Court. What's the point of voting on it then? Other states voted on it and passed it with no appeal: that's called democracy with no bias towards a worldview.
Again, if gays wanted the same rights, they could have had it by now. Say Obama loses in Nov, they may have gotten greedy and missed their window of opportunity.
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15th June 2012, 07:47 AM
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He means church declarations should have no legal weight, or no more weight than anyone else making declarations. The church can say what it likes, but parliament doesn't have to listen. Originally Posted by MAS0N This issue should raise questions about USA homosexuals' sincerity for so-called "equality," but it doesn't because of the media. When Obama got elected, he proposed federal legislation regarding civil unions which would bring "equality" according to tax laws, hospital visitations, etc. The gay community quietly opposed him and the media never reported. If gays really wanted "equality" in the US, they could've had it already. Instead though, they're now just fighting over semantics, aka the word "marriage."
Different words for the same thing is not equality. Can you imagine the furore if interracial couples couldn't get 'married', but could get a civil partnership? You don't think civil rights activists would protest to change the name? Originally Posted by MAS0N FYI Secularism is a worldview. Just like Christianity. Why does one worldview automatically have the moral high ground over another just because it's devoid of God?
Because it's in your constitution - no religion gets to dictate politics. 'Secularism' isn't a worldview, it's the idea that churches and mosques and things don't get to overrule or dictate legislation simply because they're religious. The idea is that religion doesn't get special treatment. Originally Posted by MAS0N We voted on this issue in CA and because gays didn't like the results it's being appealed to the Supreme Court. What's the point of voting on it then? Other states voted on it and passed it with no appeal: that's called democracy with no bias towards a worldview.
Err, not quite. It doesn't get appealed to the Supreme Court because "gays didn't like the results" - it gets appealed because it fulfils the criteria for appeal. The appeal is based on the alleged illegality of the vote, the unconstitutionality of the legislation.
Democracy is not as simple as "majority rules". Your country has constitutions and other things going on that take precedence.
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15th June 2012, 08:46 AM
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I disagree with him however. to me reading between the lines he seems to be saying the Church should FOLLOW the current trend. Any group that always follows soon becomes irrelevant.
The Church has a hard task here. Either staying in the past or following the trends of the times create problems for them.
But many Churches that are holding to strict views on homosexuals are losing large portions of the younger generation. If they continue on their path they will become reduced in influence.
It is a damned if you do damned if you don't for them.
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15th June 2012, 09:15 AM
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In the US (not sure about other country's tax laws), when that injecting of opinion changes the church from a non-profit to a political lobbying organization. Or at least that would be the case if laws were applied equally to churches as they are to other non-profit charities. Is the church allowed to speak out on issues relating to family and morality?
Of course. They just need to be cognizant of the damage they do to their image when doing so. | 
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