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__________________ "When a man is getting better he understands more and more clearly the evil that is still left in him. When a man is getting worse he understands his own badness less and less."
~C.S. Lewis
Come away, O human child! To the waters and the wild With a faery hand in hand, For the world's more full of weeping than you can understand.
I suppose physical attraction is someting that does matter but is not set in stone. What I mean is, for me personally, physical attraction is often linked with a personal attraction. At least it has been everytime I've been more than interested in a girl. My current crush, well I remember saying to one of my buddies a few months ago, who immediately said that she was a good looking girl, sure she looks nice enough, but she's definitely not my type. I wasn't attracted to her, I wasn't even that convinced that she was pretty. Now though, now that I've gotten to know her pretty well, and we've grown quite close, I think she's a really beautiful woman, and I can't deny that I'm attracted to her. It's not the first time that something like that has happened to me. I think for me that's how it works, if a girl is really growing on my personality wise, at one point or the other I'll fall for that, and the rest will follow.
As for what matters, people always say, guys just care about curves. I care most about her face, her eyes, her smile, and her hair. I know that if I am interested in someone, I love to lose myself in her eyes. As for curves, can't say they really matter to me personally. Fell for girls with bigger curves, and smaller curves, or average curves, makes no difference.
I suppose physical attraction is someting that does matter but is not set in stone. What I mean is, for me personally, physical attraction is often linked with a personal attraction. At least it has been everytime I've been more than interested in a girl. My current crush, well I remember saying to one of my buddies a few months ago, who immediately said that she was a good looking girl, sure she looks nice enough, but she's definitely not my type. I wasn't attracted to her, I wasn't even that convinced that she was pretty. Now though, now that I've gotten to know her pretty well, and we've grown quite close, I think she's a really beautiful woman, and I can't deny that I'm attracted to her. It's not the first time that something like that has happened to me. I think for me that's how it works, if a girl is really growing on my personality wise, at one point or the other I'll fall for that, and the rest will follow.
As for what matters, people always say, guys just care about curves. I care most about her face, her eyes, her smile, and her hair. I know that if I am interested in someone, I love to lose myself in her eyes. As for curves, can't say they really matter to me personally. Fell for girls with bigger curves, and smaller curves, or average curves, makes no difference.
That is probably the best and more honest thing I've read about how men view women on here.
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I suppose physical attraction is someting that does matter but is not set in stone. What I mean is, for me personally, physical attraction is often linked with a personal attraction. At least it has been everytime I've been more than interested in a girl. My current crush, well I remember saying to one of my buddies a few months ago, who immediately said that she was a good looking girl, sure she looks nice enough, but she's definitely not my type. I wasn't attracted to her, I wasn't even that convinced that she was pretty. Now though, now that I've gotten to know her pretty well, and we've grown quite close, I think she's a really beautiful woman, and I can't deny that I'm attracted to her. It's not the first time that something like that has happened to me. I think for me that's how it works, if a girl is really growing on my personality wise, at one point or the other I'll fall for that, and the rest will follow.
As for what matters, people always say, guys just care about curves. I care most about her face, her eyes, her smile, and her hair. I know that if I am interested in someone, I love to lose myself in her eyes. As for curves, can't say they really matter to me personally. Fell for girls with bigger curves, and smaller curves, or average curves, makes no difference.
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Yes...but in my experience it seems that the really good-looking girls are usually not the ones that I like hanging out with or are eventually attracted to. So I guess it kind of backfires.
That's not to say I don't like looking at physically attractive women. But it just seems that most of the beautiful women I know or used to know turn out to be...well, it'll probably be censored. Either that or they're just not my type personality-wise, I'm quite introverted.