Need an advice, I'll write the details as a story aspect. Fill free to say anything.

As a young girl, she grew up spiritually with God, and was encouraged by her mother, and her sunday school classes. She was happy, and enjoyous to have such spirits. Innocent and care free of knowing any evil in her life.
Until one day as she grew older, she grew to know more of her father. Who always escapes to any addiction. Alcohol, drugs, and even slandering her mother and her older brother. Acting as if he has never had a right to live under the same roof. If she requested for the church for a prayer for her father she finds her father near death of overdose of alcohol. So, she doesn't pray to keep her dad alive.
As, she become an adult. Her father has made her mother scared to show herself outside. Because of her panic attacks. Always afraid for people starring at her. Sister is the hospital for possible mental damage by her own father. From mental and emotional tormant. Always of feeling guilty of who she is and try to become of what God has made her to be.
This father can not hold a job, and then old day just gave up trying to find one. He's in no shape to work, but he will not find help for finances but lives off his wife to get by. If there is no money there, he'll seek help from his children, and then bashes them with all there flaws behind there backs. He doesn't believe in God, he doesn't believe to change, or learn from his own mistakes. His brother offers to help to get his daughters help for driving school. But he turns it down because his pride means more then his daughters to learn. Then drives there cars, and it over there heads. Telling his daughters it's not his responsbility to teach them to drive.

What do you think?

well i think it is the fathers responsibility to raise and care and provide for their children untill a certain age i believe but any way just pray ok be encouraged and keep the faith yours in christ prophetess cherrie

If the girl is of age to move out, she should leave. The father is abusive and dangerous to emotional health.
Is the girl you?
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Yes, the girl is me. I've lived 3 years away from him. But he still has my car. I was working on getting a new car, and let them borrow my current one to help my mother. He's been driving me to work. But it hasn't been going well because I'm trying to get rid of the personality that my bio father has put in me. I've been work with God to recreate me again, and try to be this person that God has made me from the beginning. God has a big task for me. Which I don't mind, it's pleasing to me to do so. But as my bio father takes me to work, and back. Once I get back home. I have to watch 5hrs of Joyce Meyer to rework what God is doing with me. To help me remember what God wants me to do.
It's like my bio father is my real devil on my shoulder. He makes me worry about my problems, and my personal flaws. Then talks about his own, and doesn't work on them. He always wants a physical savior to help him. Then bits the hand that feeds him. It's annoying, and at times it's difficult to know what my path is. It's like God shows me, then my bio father covers it. It's like he's my personal Goliath in my story. I'm looking for strong advice to get this beast get what he deserves. Without breaking one of my 10 commandments.

Part of loving someone is doing what's best for them. And we don't always enjoy things that are good for us. He needs to realize what he's doing wrong, and it doesn't sound like he's going to do that if people keep supporting him.

Some people know, on some level, that they don't deserve to be treated well, and when people do treat them well out of kindness or love, it affects them and changes them for the better. Other people respond to that kind of treatment as validation, think they can keep on doing what they're doing, and never change. So... which type is he?

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There are always two sides to every story. It seems half of this one is missing. Find it difficult to believe that one person is the blame and everyone else are merely innocent victims.

No, there isn't another side of the story. My dad would tell anyone what they want to hear to get what he wants. He'll tell others that everything is perfectly fine, and then bashes his family when there gone. You'll have to study my father for years to get this much about him.

His brothers and sister doesn't want much to do with him either. Because they've spend years trying to help him out. And he never once paid them back.

My father's best friends are drug addicts. His bestest friend was a Drug dealer who died of diabetes.

He didn't even teach his children much to even have a decent managable life. He pretty much stayed in his bedroom and watch tv all day and sulk about his life.

Jesus didn’t always turn the other cheek or walk the second mile. He stood up to His enemies and even whipped them when He cleared the temple. We are not under the law when it comes to honoring our parents. The letter kills but the spirit gives life. And really, honoring your Dad at this point does not mean going along with the agenda. That's neither honor nor love. You need to think about what's best for you. You're trying to move forward, but it seems the existing arrangement has you stuck in the mud.

I would say this one.

Well you said say anything. . Still dosent add up. How is he destroying everyones life, if he's sulking in the room all the time? Mom is too "afraid" to do anything? Still sounds biased to me. Mom and dad are partners which makes whatever is or did go on half her responsibility as well. Noone is ever 100% responsible in these cases. Sounds like it may be time for someone to start holding mom accountable as well. A person who stands on the sidelines during what you've described, is in many ways worse than the actual offender. It's 2012, being "scared" is not a legitamate excuse. It's a cop out. Just my opinion.