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9th April 2012, 05:54 PM
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Reps: 440,302,329,300,229,312 (power: 440,302,329,300,249) | | Originally Posted by deborah4god  I don't think this would really affect things in the end. It may just mean she's got a big sex drive and it's a challenge for her to keep it under wraps. If you have concerns about it having changed her fundamentally, maybe you could have a discussion and ask her specifically about the things you are worried have changed.
I wondered that too. Some people are very sexual and singleness presents problems with having a high level of sexual awareness.
Talk with her. Make sure she has read some good sexual information too. There are excellent books available
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Reps: 273,621,445,533,124,032 (power: 0) | | Originally Posted by Godisgood2011 Will there be any damage to it?
Will there be damage? Yes. Can it heal? Yes. Nobody is perfect. There are pros & cons with everything & everybody. We are all damaged to some extent, some more than others. It is less about the past & more about the future. It is about commitment. It is about choosing to overcome previous habits. Our thoughts can improve over time. What we see & think about can be cleaned up over time. Christ is a miracle maker. We have to patient with the remodeling service. We have to be concern & focused & determined to create continuous progress, honesty, tangible results, goals, etc. | | |
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