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Old 22nd January 2012, 08:19 PM
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Is It a Sin having sex not married?

I had to edit this messange. I was trying to say what I had when I was 18 years old. I forgot to say I am single. I had a major type O.

What my question was: Is having sex with someone not married with. I mean When "Two singled people".

I was talking like I was married. But, I was trying to say I did want.
I'm sorry to you guys on this thread. That made me a liar by my type O mistake.
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Old 22nd January 2012, 08:27 PM
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Is its wrong not having sex with someone that is not married and not into me?
It is a sin to have sex with anyone you are not married to, yes

So the rest of your post (and I don't say this to be rude) is irrelevant, because your question is answered. It should stop here. No getting around it...no justifying it otherwise...no special situations. Sex outside of marriage is a sin.
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Old 22nd January 2012, 08:27 PM
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Really!? I don't yell about anything really (I've been engaged a few times)... I've always had girls whom yell at me, and fight me so often that for some reason I'm okay with it... I really shouldn't be. I'm often the one whom understands what a real relationship is about, and will fight for it until I am completely sure that there's no reason for it to exist any longer.

I think you've got yourself a couple of adolescent males, not men. If you plan on keeping either of them hanging, maybe you need to consider what you're doing... sounds pretty selfish and lacks any foresight or wisdom, know a few girls whom decided they were better off only to come back begging for forgiveness and such (don't know what you've got until it's gone); I think once you betray that kind of love you don't deserve it and will gladly tell you so.

As far as you deciding that you're going to have sex with guys, well, that's on you madam...

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Old 22nd January 2012, 08:32 PM
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I don't take a hard line on Christian ethics here. But I warn you that there's reasonable evidence that having sex with people other than your eventual husband will make marriage more difficult. It's not something I'd do or recommend that you do. Particularly given your experiences. I think it's just going to confuse your relationship with guys.
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God's word is very clear in stating that sex is only to be shared in the context of marriage. That's the way God designed it and that intimacy isn't meant to be given to anyone other than your spouse.
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Old 22nd January 2012, 09:24 PM
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Sorry, I took out and edit it. I am single. I'm not yet married, no lie. I want to me married. I should of lefted that is there. I'm really not lying. But, I did had sex with a friend when I was 18. We was not married.
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Old 22nd January 2012, 10:07 PM
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hello and welcome to Christian forum
yes I believe it is a sin to have sex with someone even if both of you are single
you said you had sex with a friend when you were 18?
well remember God forgives all sins if we repent and turn to Him
He is our Joy and our Salvation!
trust in the Lord, stay away from sin and what leads you to sin
God bless you my dear sister in Christ and welcome to the forum
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Old 22nd January 2012, 10:29 PM
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Thanks. I was Baptized after all that. So I try to keep myself out of trouble.
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we should remember the words of our Lord Jesus

Gospel according to st.Mark 2:17 Jesus heard this and said to them (that), "Those who are well do not need a physician, but the sick do. I did not come to call the righteous but sinners." we are all sinners and we can only be saved through the grace and forgivness of our Lord Jesus Christ
glad to hear you got baptised
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