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Old 21st June 2011, 09:00 PM
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Question What are Single Christian men looking for in a Single Christian woman?

Hello, Nice to meet you all!

I'm just curious, I've seen past forum with this same question. But I can't find it anymore. So, I've started a new one.

I've been wondering this question for a year now. I haven't been dating that much. Because I've been so busy. I know about some guys have certain tastes. I don't mind to hear about them as well. I've been also going through some lifetime changes in my life. Like being a better Christian woman, and becoming a better woman anyway. So, as I'm becoming this new creature in Christ. I was wondering this question!?!?!

What are MOST Christian men looking for? I know that men are into certain different tastes. But, what are men actually looking for that are the 100% of all men are looking for? Or most common? You can display on what on what guys don't like?

I like to know. Because I like to marry a christian sweetheart male someday. I'm 28 years old now. And I'm going to be serious in dating soon. I don't want to scare off any man I date.

If anyone can give me an idea what a Christian man would be looking for that's there main thing that there looking for? You can also post any peeves that you guys hate in a relationship that is not good on a woman's behavior.

It's not that I'm wanting to be a pushover. I just want to know. I don't have a good resources to know at my end. To learn about guys.

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For me, what is most important is that they are absolutely in love with Jesus and seeking to know God even more! I think modesty is important to just about any guy that is worth your time. Also, don't be afraid to be yourself and be patient in waiting for the guy. Be the woman that would attract the man that you want to marry. Strive after God in all things and the Godly man will find you. Blessings my sister!
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Originally Posted by Mediakira View Post
Hello, Nice to meet you all!

I'm just curious, I've seen past forum with this same question. But I can't find it anymore. So, I've started a new one.

I've been wondering this question for a year now. I haven't been dating that much. Because I've been so busy. I know about some guys have certain tastes. I don't mind to hear about them as well. I've been also going through some lifetime changes in my life. Like being a better Christian woman, and becoming a better woman anyway. So, as I'm becoming this new creature in Christ. I was wondering this question!?!?!

What are MOST Christian men looking for? I know that men are into certain different tastes. But, what are men actually looking for that are the 100% of all men are looking for? Or most common? You can display on what on what guys don't like?

I like to know. Because I like to marry a christian sweetheart male someday. I'm 28 years old now. And I'm going to be serious in dating soon. I don't want to scare off any man I date.

If anyone can give me an idea what a Christian man would be looking for that's there main thing that there looking for? You can also post any peeves that you guys hate in a relationship that is not good on a woman's behavior.

It's not that I'm wanting to be a pushover. I just want to know. I don't have a good resources to know at my end. To learn about guys.
One who is around my age and will actually have me...
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faith in Christ
personality that jives with mine
honesty
adventurous nature
attractive physically
athletic
likes my sense of humor
wants to have kids
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Originally Posted by HazelWings View Post
I'm not a guy, but my best advice is to be your authentic self and that's the best way to find "the one"

Probably the best advice that will be posted in this thread.
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I'm assuming we're going to say she's really a christian
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that's like.. it... lol
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[quote=Mediakira;57815243
What are MOST Christian men looking for? I know that men are into certain different tastes. But, what are men actually looking for that are the 100% of all men are looking for? Or most common? You can display on what on what guys don't like?

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The common denominators in what *most* (exceptions notwithstanding) MEN (Christian or not) are looking for:

- Honesty
- Respect
- Interest
- Some commonality in values
- Healthy/slender/decent to good looking
- Integrity
- Empathy and kind-heartedness
- Shared humour

Though most will avoid you if you have any of the following qualities:

- Obesity/lack of concern for physical health
- Children and/or complications with ex-spouse/boyfriend (varies on men and depends on age and attitude of children to them...applies to ex too if he's involved in a significant way)
- Prideful competativeness/Ultra feminist
- A history of promiscuity
- Conversely - any indication of sexual frigidity that doesn't have to do with initial fear but long held attitude or distaste (indicates possible once every 2 weeks/month or more begging affair for him(I'm talking within marriage here))
- Excessively needy emotionally (not just once in a while)
- Excessively needy financially (always)
- Lots of negative attitudes about men in general or past partners (possible indications of the future put downs/disrespect)
- (He has) Uber incompatibility with your parents

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