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Unread 21st July 2010, 10:05 PM
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Question Is it okay to be bi-curious?

Hello everyone,
I am glad I have signed up to these forums, at the moment I have nobody to turn to with my question because everyone keeps pushing me away when I ask it. I am 36 years old and happily married, but occasionally I have thoughts, is it okay to be bi-curious? I hope this is the right place to ask this, and I am sorry in advance if I have offended anyone.

James
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No it's not ok. Most likely there are other factors at work here. The bible says to think on pure things. Philippians 4:8 says this:
Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things.
If you are thinking of such things as you mention here it would be a good idea to change some things in your life. Movies, TV, books, mags., these things can be very dangerous to your marriage.

You are the defender of your family, don't let things into your marriage or family that are not godly and thus good.
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Thankyou for your guidance Elder Mike,
I understand what you mean about the various forms of media. From now on I will be conscious of what I am watching or reading. I have started to read the bible more frequently, maybe a few times a day, but at least once.

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