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If God wants you to be married, how do you know when he's brought along your spouse?

a common but maybe not so simple question. will He reveal them to you by a lightning bolt revelation, pictures, words, through other people etc? or is it up to you to pray consistently and ask God about the person if you feel an attraction to them? will He make it obvious what His will is, whether its 'yes I've chosen this guy/girl to be your future spouse' or 'no, they're not the one for you.' does God often say 'not yet', meaning the person is the right one but not right now? and if He does, what could His reasons be?
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Unread 16th June 2010, 04:13 PM
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No. You will also probably find that, if you murder somebody, the heavens won't open up, either. Given that the vast majority of people in history have married and that the Bible sort of indicates that most people will and possibly should marry, it's probably quite likely that God wants you to be married. In fact, it's probably the case that if God doesn't want you to get married, you will have some way of figuring that out. As for who you marry, I really don't think God cares that much beyond a few simple things.

Okay, that doesn't sound that good, but hear me out.

There are probably hundreds of godly Christian men near you that you could get along perfectly well with in marriage. There's really no magic way of knowing which one is the The One, so it's best to live your life to the greater glory of God and trust that, as long as you do everything for the greater glory of God and seek after God's will, these major life decisions are probably not "wrong". So if you find that you've been going out with a guy for a while, he loves Christ more than he loves you, you are both rather fond of each other, are both thinking about marriage, and get along pretty well, that might be all the signs you get. You can't expect the sky to peel back and confirm this stuff. The Scriptures tell you what a good husband is and your heart tells you whether you love the guy.
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Originally Posted by royourboat View Post
a common but maybe not so simple question. will He reveal them to you by a lightning bolt revelation, pictures, words, through other people etc?
I doubt it will be a lightning bolt because that might kill you.

The answer is: sometimes. I've heard many stories from people who I count as credible that God told them "he's the one" or "she's the one". Sometimes he told one person but not the other and sometimes it led to a whirlwind romance and others the person had to wait a long time for "the one" to come around.

But, sometimes it just obvious in other ways and doesn't require an audible voice from God. If two people are attracted to one another - not just physically, but mentally and emotionally - they have common interests, shared goals and all that jazz they won't need a Word straight from God's mouth about it. They'll just do what comes naturally.

The most common thing I've heard people say about it is "when you know, you know."

or is it up to you to pray consistently and ask God about the person if you feel an attraction to them?
Well, we should always be praying about it and asking God for direction in our lives.

will He make it obvious what His will is, whether its 'yes I've chosen this guy/girl to be your future spouse' or 'no, they're not the one for you.' does God often say 'not yet', meaning the person is the right one but not right now? and if He does, what could His reasons be?
If you've asked God to lead you and direct your steps, then a lot of times what He'll do is just close the door if He doesn't want you to go through it.

Of course it's possible that God may say "not yet". Reasons for that may be that either person isn't ready, still has some things to learn or experience before it would be wise to get married.

Generally speaking, though, I'd say if someone feels like they've met "the one" but it's not working out for whatever reason so it might be a "not yet" scenario then the person should back off and try to keep emotional entanglements to a minimum.

Most of us around here know from experience that when we really really want to be with someone we sometimes think we've heard from God when we haven't.

The best advice I can give is to let it go and let God handle it. If it's "meant to be" then it will be.

That's not always easy to hear. There have been times in my life when I wanted to throw something at someone for saying that to me. But it is true, IMHO.
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Originally Posted by royourboat View Post
a common but maybe not so simple question. will He reveal them to you by a lightning bolt revelation, pictures, words, through other people etc? or is it up to you to pray consistently and ask God about the person if you feel an attraction to them? will He make it obvious what His will is, whether its 'yes I've chosen this guy/girl to be your future spouse' or 'no, they're not the one for you.' does God often say 'not yet', meaning the person is the right one but not right now? and if He does, what could His reasons be?
Things in your life will start to set in motion than being a big brick wall in front of you...things will start clicking inside your heart AND spirit...and the other person will feel the same way feeling...it takes two people to make an relationship last as well as the most important thing of it all...the Lord has to be in the middle of your love life too

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this is an area i'm kind of at a loss to explain my beliefs. I don't believe in "the one" since i see no Biblical back-up for such a concept. I think we actually have free will in who we choose to marry. There was no one but myself keeping me in my last relationship even when it was evident it wasn't working, and its very likely had i chosen to stay that we would be getting married. Only I chose to put an end to it and leave myself free to find a relationship that was healthier and better for me. It wasn't fate. Or God, though He might be given the credit to opening my eyes and giving me strength to walk away. In the end i chose for myself what I wanted in life.

That being said, I believe God has a will for my life and He knows who would be the best match for me in that life. And when the time is right for both of us, our paths will cross. Assuming that man actually exists. How will I know? I doubt i will know for sure, but I will know if we're suited for eachother and I will know if we love eachother in a healthy way that would lend itself to a happy and strong marriage. and from there I will just have to take a leap of faith and trust myself and him to work together to make our marriage a success.
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You will probably be in some kind of relationship with them that progresses positively and brings more good than bad into your life. I don't believe you will recieve any sort of wise insight into such a thing unless you have interactions with them in life.

You work better together than you do apart. "Better" not "worse and drag each other down"
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this is an area i'm kind of at a loss to explain my beliefs. I don't believe in "the one" since i see no Biblical back-up for such a concept. I think we actually have free will in who we choose to marry. There was no one but myself keeping me in my last relationship even when it was evident it wasn't working, and its very likely had i chosen to stay that we would be getting married. Only I chose to put an end to it and leave myself free to find a relationship that was healthier and better for me. It wasn't fate. Or God, though He might be given the credit to opening my eyes and giving me strength to walk away. In the end i chose for myself what I wanted in life.

That being said, I believe God has a will for my life and He knows who would be the best match for me in that life. And when the time is right for both of us, our paths will cross. Assuming that man actually exists. How will I know? I doubt i will know for sure, but I will know if we're suited for eachother and I will know if we love eachother in a healthy way that would lend itself to a happy and strong marriage. and from there I will just have to take a leap of faith and trust myself and him to work together to make our marriage a success.
Nobody is perfect to be "the one and only" for someone as well as the fact that you got to go outside and introduce yourself towards peeps because you can't get married unless you put some motion to create friendships and whatnot. God sees our needs, dreams, and desires and He wants the best for each one of us...sure there isn't a fellow on a white horse to rescue you nor is there an princess in a tower awaiting for the guy either...and as men there isn't no perfect woman either...everyone got to accept each other as who we are right now...doesn't matter what sort of past you have...love them as they are

I do hope that the Lord has someone special for you miss

God Bless,
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Careful...if you are staring at lightning bolts, pictures, words or others you might be too distracted to notice God didn't send him down but the devil coughed him up. jus' sayin'...
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