He acts like he did nothing wrong like he's not even sorry now..GRRR...
Hello,
I texted the guy who WAS my friend who raped me. I realized that he left a bruise on my arm. I was wondering what it was because I have never really gotten a bruise from a person before. I sent him a text and told him that he left a bruise on my wrist. He didn't reply. While cleaning my car out he started to walk towards me so I actually sat in the car. My neighbor (who is protective of me in a good way) was outside so I was okay. He came up to me and said how did I leave a bruise on your wrist, I just look at him ( I felt so angry at the time I felt like I could have hit him). Then my neighbor looked at him and my ex-friend (I will call Billy) said I must have gotten the bruise from someone I was creepin with(I don't creep and I am not having sex with anyone I am saving myself). I DON'T creep but he has this theory that I must be creeping because I can't be in church as much as I say I am (I really am on the way to church when I say I am).
So anyways I did text him alittle later about it, and told him that I was sure I had the right person, I told him that it was from him from two weeks ago. I also told him that I don't creep and told him I don't want him saying that because I don't want to get a bad repuation from something I don't do. He texted me and asked me why are we still talking about this. I told him the bruise is visible as day and I am mad because it shouldn't be there in the first place and asked him do he understand now. Then he said I guess so, how does he guess so, if he wouldn't have raped me in the first place it wouldn't have been there. Then I said 4get it. Then he said Yeah Exactly, then I asked him to please just stop because he was making me more mad then what I already am. Then he said I don't know I'm not understanding why you send me that text anyway but ok its dropped. Then I told him I didn't think he would understand what I mean ur right it was just a waste of my time.
I guess maybe I shouldn't have said anything about it in the first place. But I saw it and it made me mad all over again. You know he had the nerve to ask me why did I leave him and not give him a ride to class (he use to ride with me before this happened). In my head I am like Gee why do you think I left you.
He sounds like a purely selfish individual with a totally seared conscience. Narcissisitic maybe. Report him. Get to a doctor and get checked out. Tell your parents.
Yes you should definitely report him. What he did was wrong.
__________________ I never meant to cause you any sorrow
I never meant to cause you any pain
I only wanted one time to see you laughing
I only wanted to see you laughing in the purple rain.
Not wanting people to know is pretty common. But it can mean a guy's bad behaviour can go on unchecked.
Also, if it was an 'out of the blue' rape, rather than beinga progression from previous intimacy such as undressing and/or touching for example, then you might not want others to know about that.
I am going to post this on my other thread as well:
I just wanted to let everyone know that I went to the GYN today we talked and it really helped also we double checked to make sure I am not pregnant and praise God I am not. She was really there and supported me which meant the world to me.
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