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Old 7th November 2009, 01:34 AM
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Originally Posted by Johnnz View Post
Then he should be made accountable. Other women could be at risk otherwise is all he thinks he needs to do is deny and lie.

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I have been thinking about that all day today. The only thing is I really don't want to go to the police. I couldn't imagine having to see the details of what happened aloud.
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Old 7th November 2009, 02:24 PM
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Originally Posted by Living4him09 View Post
I have been thinking about that all day today. The only thing is I really don't want to go to the police. I couldn't imagine having to see the details of what happened aloud.
Maybe you could ask them if you could give a written statement... you could use some of what you have already written on here and just edit in details like names..

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Old 8th November 2009, 01:48 AM
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Originally Posted by Criada View Post
Maybe you could ask them if you could give a written statement... you could use some of what you have already written on here and just edit in details like names..

Praying, sweetie

That is a good idea. Do you think I could have them promise me that only one or two people can look at the case/process the case and they aren't allowed to share with any of the other officers. A couple people in my direct family is a police officer, and majority of them are really good friends with my direct family. So, that would risk/ be chancing my entire family finding out about it.
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If they are uniformed officers they may not have too much choice about what happens after you have made a statement.

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Thanks everyone for all of your help, the situation was getting better but I sorta had a relapse, so I feel as I am almost starting back at square one
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