Home | Be a Christian | Devotionals | Join Us! | Forums | Rules | F.A.Q.


Go Back   Christian Forums > Edification (Christians Only) > Edification > Christian Advice
Register BlogsPrayersJobsArcade Members List Calendar Mark Forums Read

Christian Advice A forum for requesting and giving Biblical advice.

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old 1st November 2009, 08:18 AM
Junior Member

Gender: Male Faith: Christian Member For 3 Years
 
Join Date: 18th June 2006
Posts: 49
Blessings: 33,132
Reps: 526,863,825,530 (power: 526,863,829)
surrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond repute
surrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond reputesurrendersacrifice has a reputation beyond repute
Why divorce is not an option for Christians?

To be a Christian is to follow Christ. To follow Him we must love Him. To love Him is to surrender our life to Him. To surrender our life to Him is to live a life that is His, and not ours. This means that we do and think what He does and thinks. We know that God is always faithful to us although we have been unfaithful to Him, and rejected Him by our sins. Furthermore, He sacrificed His own life so that we may be free of sin and have His life. To be a Christian, therefore, is to do likewise. In addition, since it is God who seals the marriage covenant no one can separate what God has joined together (Matt 19:6); and those who attempt to break this seal go against God. Divorce is therefore, absolutely prohibited for believers (Mk 10:11-12, Luke 16:18; Matthew 5: 31-32); and remarriage after divorce is adultery. Furthermore, a person whose spouse is unfaithful to him/her must stay faithful to his/her spouse just as God is faithful to us even when we reject Him (Hosea 3:1).

God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16) and is not pleased with the offerings of those who divorce their spouse (Malachi 2: 13-14). Jesus tells us that before making offering to God, we must reconcile with those with whom we have grievances (Matt. 5: 23-24). Therefore, a divorced person must first reconcile with his/her spouse before making an offering to the Lord.
Reply With Quote
Become a CF Site Supporter Today and Make These Ads Go Away!

  #2  
Old 1st November 2009, 10:13 AM
Member

46 Gender: Male Faith: Christian Country: New Zealand Member For 4 Years
 
Join Date: 8th October 2005
Posts: 320
Blessings: 28,539
Reps: 8,154,561 (power: 8,159)
Quasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond repute
Quasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond reputeQuasicentennial has a reputation beyond repute
Faithfulness is what sets people apart from unfaithfulness. If a Christian man divorces his wife and marries a woman of faithfulness then the marriage is clean. If a Christian woman divorces his husband and marries a man of faithfulness then the marriage is clean also. Satan can rob us of our faith but God allowed Jesus to save us to return our stolen faith. Christians don't always remain unfaithful. That's why Jesus is always present to save those when we need him. We make mistakes and Jesus forgives those who want forgiveness. Since God knows our future, many faithful believers who made mistakes always ask for forgiveness.

__________________
I learn to accept Jesus Christ and our God the Father by default.
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 1st November 2009, 02:26 PM
Senior Veteran

68 Gender: Male Married Faith: Christian Country: New Zealand Member For 5 Years
 
Join Date: 3rd August 2004
Location: New Zealand
Posts: 6,075
Blessings: 141,973
Reps: 92,425,604,435 (power: 92,425,616)
Johnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond repute
Johnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond reputeJohnnz has a reputation beyond repute
What nonsense. God does hate divorce when that means people are not taking marriage seriously and being footloose about their commitment. But God Himself divorced Israel because they persisted in living outside his ways.

John
NZ

Last edited by Johnnz; 2nd November 2009 at 03:42 AM.
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 1st November 2009, 02:31 PM
byHISway's Avatar
Regular Member

30 Gender: Female Faith: Non-Denominational Country: United States
View Profile Pic
 
Join Date: 16th June 2009
Location: only time will tell (great aversion, eh? Yeah, I thought so too! )
Posts: 582
Blessings: 19,595
My Mood Inspired
Blog Entries: 3
Reps: 123,642,755,929,575 (power: 123,642,755,930)
byHISway has disabled reputation
Originally Posted by surrendersacrifice View Post
To be a Christian is to follow Christ. To follow Him we must love Him. To love Him is to surrender our life to Him. To surrender our life to Him is to live a life that is His, and not ours. This means that we do and think what He does and thinks. We know that God is always faithful to us although we have been unfaithful to Him, and rejected Him by our sins. Furthermore, He sacrificed His own life so that we may be free of sin and have His life. To be a Christian, therefore, is to do likewise. In addition, since it is God who seals the marriage covenant no one can separate what God has joined together (Matt 19:6); and those who attempt to break this seal go against God. Divorce is therefore, absolutely prohibited for believers (Mk 10:11-12, Luke 16:18; Matthew 5: 31-32); and remarriage after divorce is adultery. Furthermore, a person whose spouse is unfaithful to him/her must stay faithful to his/her spouse just as God is faithful to us even when we reject Him (Hosea 3:1).

God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16) and is not pleased with the offerings of those who divorce their spouse (Malachi 2: 13-14). Jesus tells us that before making offering to God, we must reconcile with those with whom we have grievances (Matt. 5: 23-24). Therefore, a divorced person must first reconcile with his/her spouse before making an offering to the Lord.


This seems to be a frequent topic on here. In other words, much discussion and scriptures out there (here) to refer back to instead of forming an opinion on just one thread.

I'm simply putting this out there to those looking for answers on this subject.
__________________


"When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on." - Franklin D. Roosevelt
*************************************************
"You will either step forward into growth or you will step back into safety." - Abraham Maslow
*************************************************
"There is no normal life Wyatt, there's just life, now get on with it."
***********************************************


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 2nd November 2009, 01:10 AM
drich0150's Avatar
Regular Member

34 Gender: Male Married Faith: Non-Denominational Party: US-Republican Country: United States Member For 1 Years
View Profile Pic
 
Join Date: 16th March 2008
Location: Orlando Florida
Posts: 2,077
Blessings: 2,639
My Mood Fine
Reps: 12,009,250,315,826 (power: 12,009,250,319)
drich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond repute
drich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond reputedrich0150 has a reputation beyond repute
Originally Posted by Johnnz View Post
What nonsense. God does hate divorce when that means people are not taking marriage seriously and being footloose about their comittment. But God Hinself divorced Israel because they persisted in living outside his ways.

John
NZ

What He Said.
__________________
If I do not respond in a timely manor to your post, I invite you to send me a PM or a E/M to remind me of your situation. I'm having a hard time keeping up with everyone, and sometimes the squeakiest wheel gets the grease.
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 2nd November 2009, 03:21 AM
wayseer's Avatar
Ranger

66 Gender: Male Faith: Anglican Country: Australia Member For 1 Years Steward
View Profile Pic
 
Join Date: 10th June 2008
Location: Maryborough, QLD, Australia
Posts: 2,725
Blessings: 34,559
Reps: 4,209,945,331,156 (power: 4,209,945,335)
wayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond repute
wayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond reputewayseer has a reputation beyond repute
Originally Posted by surrendersacrifice View Post
[font=Times New Roman][size=3]To be a Christian is to follow Christ. To follow Him we must love Him. To love Him is to surrender our life to Him. To surrender our life to Him is to live a life that is His, and not ours. This means that we do and think what He does and thinks.
We are not puppets with some old man in the sky pulling the strings. We live in a rather messy and at times unsavoury world - nothing is perfect. We makes mistakes, we trip and go over the edge. We pick ourselves up, dust off the dirt and grime and get going again. That is what life is about - overcoming obstacles.
__________________
Not all those who wander are lost
Reply With Quote
  #7  
Old 3rd November 2009, 12:23 AM
Newbie

Gender: Female Faith: Christian Party: US-Green Country: United States
 
Join Date: 2nd November 2009
Location: United States
Posts: 10
Blessings: 2,455
Reps: 10 (power: 0)
demetriceedwards is on a distinguished road
Make sure u find that special one before you "put a ring on it"
Reply With Quote
  #8  
Old 3rd November 2009, 02:36 AM
freeport's Avatar
Senior Veteran

Gender: Male Married Faith: Christian
 
Join Date: 21st June 2009
Posts: 2,170
Blessings: 18,141
My Mood Where
Reps: 38,221,363,904,330 (power: 0)
freeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond repute
freeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond reputefreeport has a reputation beyond repute
Originally Posted by surrendersacrifice View Post
To be a Christian is to follow Christ. To follow Him we must love Him. To love Him is to surrender our life to Him. To surrender our life to Him is to live a life that is His, and not ours. This means that we do and think what He does and thinks. We know that God is always faithful to us although we have been unfaithful to Him, and rejected Him by our sins. Furthermore, He sacrificed His own life so that we may be free of sin and have His life. To be a Christian, therefore, is to do likewise. In addition, since it is God who seals the marriage covenant no one can separate what God has joined together (Matt 19:6); and those who attempt to break this seal go against God. Divorce is therefore, absolutely prohibited for believers (Mk 10:11-12, Luke 16:18; Matthew 5: 31-32); and remarriage after divorce is adultery. Furthermore, a person whose spouse is unfaithful to him/her must stay faithful to his/her spouse just as God is faithful to us even when we reject Him (Hosea 3:1).

God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16) and is not pleased with the offerings of those who divorce their spouse (Malachi 2: 13-14). Jesus tells us that before making offering to God, we must reconcile with those with whom we have grievances (Matt. 5: 23-24). Therefore, a divorced person must first reconcile with his/her spouse before making an offering to the Lord.
Anything is able to be forgiven, but I wish people would be more in tune with purity and listen to their own hearts on relationships. They are holy.
Reply With Quote
  #9  
Old 4th November 2009, 04:17 AM
heron's Avatar
Legend

Member For 4 Years
View Profile Pic
 
Join Date: 24th March 2005
Location: U.S.
Posts: 15,742
Blessings: 261,960
Reps: 7,129,728,510,400 (power: 7,129,728,530)
heron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond repute
heron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond reputeheron has a reputation beyond repute
When looking at the whole law, certain things precede the divorce option:

Lev 20:10
If a man commits adultery with the wife of his neighbor, both the adulterer and the adulteress shall be put to death.

That leaves no one to divorce.


How many of these offenses lead toward a divorce...


De 27:25 `Cursed is he who accepts a bribe to strike down an innocent person.' And all the people shall say, `Amen.'

24 `Cursed is he who strikes his neighbor in secret.' And all the people shall say, `Amen.'


19
`Cursed is he who distorts the justice due an alien, orphan, and widow.' And all the people shall say, `Amen.'

16 `Cursed is he who dishonors his father or mother.' And all the people shall say, `Amen.'

17 `Cursed is he who moves his neighbor's boundary mark.' And all the people shall say, `Amen.' (Claims on property)

22 `Cursed is he who lies with his sister, the daughter of his father or of his mother.' And all the people shall say, `Amen.'


Reply With Quote
  #10  
Old 4th November 2009, 02:06 PM
Forealzchola's Avatar
Veteran

21 Gender: Female Faith: Non-Denominational Party: US-Republican Country: United States Member For 3 Years
View Profile Pic
 
Join Date: 4th September 2006
Location: California
Posts: 2,777
Blessings: 44,352
My Mood Happy
Reps: 1,435,867,769,276,792 (power: 1,435,867,769,282)
Forealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond repute
Forealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond reputeForealzchola has a reputation beyond repute
To me Divorce is an option in the following situations : adultery and physical and emotionally abusive relationships. God doesnt want you to be a victim
__________________

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Reply With Quote
Reply


Return to Christian Advice

Thread Tools
Display Modes



 
Become a CF Site Supporter Today and Make These Ads Go Away!
All times are GMT -4. The time now is 06:24 AM.


vBCredits v1.4 Copyright ©2007 - 2008, PixelFX Studios