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23rd October 2009, 07:09 PM
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Dear Chaplin, I am in such a predicament and I do not know what to do. I recently moved to a new rural town and my neighbor and her husband came over one night to introduce themselves. Being a newly empty nester I was welcoming the opportunity to meet new friends. This is a married couple with 2 teens from a previous marriage and an 8 year old daughter through their own marriage. Since July when this has happened I have not only welcomed their children in my home but also become this womans sounding board as well. They had a 10 year anniversary party in August which I gladly helped with but I have also become the one everyone wants to talk to as there are family problems going on. Although I had prayed for an oppotunity in this new town to allow my faith to be used it seems like I am stuck. This woman is very negative and swears constantly oblivious to the Lords feelings. I cringe at the words that come out of her mouth. I have tried in vain to direct her in an optimistic Godly path. On Monday she is having bladder surgery and I have volunteered my help as far as getting her children up for school and also the cooking and the cleaning in the home since she will be bedridden for several weeks. I spent 4 hours with her today and I have a severe headache just listening to all the negativity. What can I do to make this situation easier for me and her, besides pray. Her husband and her are on the brink of divorce so all I hear is how bad her life is. Please help. Thank you, Debbie  |
23rd October 2009, 07:12 PM
| | Anonymous
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23rd October 2009, 09:09 PM
| | Anonymous
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Reps: 147,002,159,151,389 (power: 147,002,159,161) | | Originally Posted by Anonymous Voice  Dear Chaplin, I am in such a predicament and I do not know what to do. I recently moved to a new rural town and my neighbor and her husband came over one night to introduce themselves. Being a newly empty nester I was welcoming the opportunity to meet new friends. This is a married couple with 2 teens from a previous marriage and an 8 year old daughter through their own marriage. Since July when this has happened I have not only welcomed their children in my home but also become this womans sounding board as well. They had a 10 year anniversary party in August which I gladly helped with but I have also become the one everyone wants to talk to as there are family problems going on. Although I had prayed for an oppotunity in this new town to allow my faith to be used it seems like I am stuck. This woman is very negative and swears constantly oblivious to the Lords feelings. I cringe at the words that come out of her mouth. I have tried in vain to direct her in an optimistic Godly path. On Monday she is having bladder surgery and I have volunteered my help as far as getting her children up for school and also the cooking and the cleaning in the home since she will be bedridden for several weeks. I spent 4 hours with her today and I have a severe headache just listening to all the negativity. What can I do to make this situation easier for me and her, besides pray. Her husband and her are on the brink of divorce so all I hear is how bad her life is. Please help. Thank you, Debbie
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23rd October 2009, 09:25 PM
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23rd October 2009, 09:35 PM
| | Anonymous
| | Join Date: 6th September 2008
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Reps: 147,002,159,151,389 (power: 147,002,159,161) | | Hi last two posters. Though this is anonymous, mods still know who you are.
Happily, so do I as you're both still listed in the active users field at the top of the thread. Neighborlady and AngelofDeath69.
Trolls are so tiresome, how empty your lives must be. 
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24th October 2009, 07:11 PM
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