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Old 15th October 2009, 07:00 AM
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Your Church's teaching on sex

1.Does you church have a teaching on what is approppriate intimacy between husband and wife?

2. Is oral sex within marriage sinful?

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Old 15th October 2009, 07:16 AM
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Originally Posted by Cribstyl View Post
1.Does you church have a doctrine on approved sex?
Sorry, but that conjours up an image of a church manual on approved sexual positions, with illustrations.

Or perhaps, in a more contempory congregation, a video shown on the projector screen.

2. Is oral sex after marriage sinful?
Is the marriage over because of divorce or because one person is dead. Either way it's not good.

Or did you mean "Is oral sex within marriage sinful?"
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Old 15th October 2009, 10:28 AM
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Originally Posted by Cribstyl View Post
1.Does you church have a doctrine on approved sex?
Sex within marriage is the only "approved" sex.

2. Is oral sex after marriage sinful?

(important subject)
If you mean, while you're married, I'd say yes.
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Originally Posted by Cribstyl View Post
1.Does you church have a doctrine on approved sex?

2. Is oral sex after marriage sinful?

(important subject)



1. Sex is approved of. God thinks so. Our church thinks so. I think so, and my wife agrees.

2. what does talking about sex have to do with being sinful?



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Any sex outside of marriage is a sin, period. As far as what goes on between a married couple that's their own business.
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Old 15th October 2009, 10:56 AM
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The bible teaches that sex outside of marriage is wrong, however, sex within marriage is a gift of God. Scripture never says what a husband and wife are or are not allowed to do sexually. Husbands and wives are instructed, “Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time (1 Cor. 7:5). Whatever is done, it should be mutually agreed upon. No one should be encouraged or coerced to do something that either is uncomfortable with or thinks is wrong.
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Originally Posted by cyberlizard View Post


1. Sex is approved of. God thinks so. Our church thinks so. I think so, and my wife agrees.

2. what does talking about sex have to do with being sinful?



Steve

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Hey Crib! How's it going?
I havent heard my pastor talk about this much.
IMO, it's a matter of conscience which is why you
want to be very careful who you let guide you.
I'm thankful that I wasnt raised in a church, because then
i might not feel at liberty to dance, have a glass of wine
etc.
anyhow, that's my opinion.
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Originally Posted by Cribstyl View Post
1.Does you church have a doctrine on approved sex?

2. Is oral sex after marriage sinful?

(important subject)
Sorry, I don't discuss my sex life in public
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Catholicism teaches oral sex to be ok, but not as an "ends" to sexual activity. All sexual activity must be completed such that it is open to life. And oral sex is not conducive to that.

See Humanae Vitae.
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Originally Posted by sunlover1 View Post

Stevie funny!

Hey Crib! How's it going?


I havent heard my pastor talk about this much.
IMO, it's a matter of conscience which is why you
want to be very careful who you let guide you.
I'm thankful that I wasnt raised in a church, because then
i might not feel at liberty to dance, have a glass of wine
etc.
anyhow, that's my opinion.
Well said,.........

That's why He gives us His Holy Spirit in us,..that we may walk in the spirit.
Hey Sunny, "it's always good." ...
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