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22nd October 2009, 12:43 PM
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Reps: 1,132,405,007 (power: 0) | | | I have no idea what my churchs teachings are they dont really preach on it. I wonder if they have some kind of paper on it or something, not that it would effect or modify my behavior but it would be interesting. Wow every time I read parts of pilgrim to chirst I cringe, to take a wife to orgasm through oral but the man can never experience that same pleasure, sounds like some serious masicism. | 
30th October 2009, 08:30 PM
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Reps: 233,147,813,510,988,768 (power: 233,147,813,511,065) | | | Sex should be within marriage only. (See Romans 5:29 among others)
Adultery is evil. (See Exodus 20:14 among others)
Homosexuality is evil. (See Romans 1:26-27 among others)
The marriage bed is undefiled. (See Hebrews 13:4) | 
6th November 2009, 08:34 AM
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Reps: 10 (power: 0) | | | G'day folks, first time posting here. Hey Frosty One: there is no Romans 5:29, not sure what you meant to write there. Anyone got a good verse advocating sex only in marriage? I can't seem to find any. | 
6th November 2009, 02:23 PM
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Reps: 398,724,314,321,260,160 (power: 398,724,314,321,270) | | Originally Posted by Darth Creed G'day folks, first time posting here. Hey Frosty One: there is no Romans 5:29, not sure what you meant to write there. Anyone got a good verse advocating sex only in marriage? I can't seem to find any.
Any passage referencing fornication or adultery as sins like Mt 15:19 or Mk 7:21. | 
8th November 2009, 10:27 PM
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14th November 2009, 10:40 PM
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14th November 2009, 11:24 PM
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Reps: 233,147,813,510,988,768 (power: 233,147,813,511,065) | | Originally Posted by Cribstyl 1.Does you church have a teaching on what is approppriate intimacy between husband and wife?
Not that I know of. The marriage bed is undefiled. However, I do think my church would frown upon bringing a third party in to the bedroom. 2. Is oral sex within marriage sinful?
(important subject)
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15th November 2009, 03:19 AM
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Reps: 398,724,314,321,260,160 (power: 398,724,314,321,270) | | Originally Posted by cowboysfan1970 Something I'm curious about, where in the Bible does it say that sex is a gift? I haven't come across this.
Off the top of my head w/o searching, it would be the passage that says "male and female He created them." Our maleness & femaleness comes from Him, and of course these attributes are what make men and women compatible for participation in procreation, i.e. it is freely given to us by God and is thus a gift. | 
17th November 2009, 10:41 AM
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17th November 2009, 10:40 PM
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There is a fine line between love and lust, and sometimes only a heart that trully devoted to God can discern between the two.
I was hoping to hear from some of my SDA friends who claim that the law defines all sin.
Many of them state that the marriage bed is undefiled while they do have food restrictions. |  | | | Thread Tools | | | | Display Modes | Linear Mode | | | |