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Old 15th October 2009, 02:57 PM
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Originally Posted by MrPolo View Post
Catholicism teaches oral sex to be ok, but not as an "ends" to sexual activity. All sexual activity must be completed such that it is open to life. And oral sex is not conducive to that.
That seems 50/50 to me.
Is there a chatichismic citation.

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Old 15th October 2009, 03:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Cribstyl View Post
That seems 50/50 to me.
Is their a chatichismic citation.
I don't understand what you mean 50/50? It basically means oral sex can't be the "end" of the act. I needn't get graphic.
The Catechism mentions the necessity of being open to procreation in all sexual acts in #2366.
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Originally Posted by Cribstyl View Post
1.Does you church have a teaching on what is approppriate intimacy between husband and wife?

2. Is oral sex within marriage sinful?

(important subject)


Edited.
Interestingly I've never heard a sermon on the subject. Maybe that's why they used to send us out to Sunday school back in the day, lol... Perhaps that's a failing of the church to give proper guidance about God's intention regarding sex. For example, some believe that the use of contraception in marriage to avoid becoming pregnant is against God's will or a sin, but I don't see any evidence of that in the Bible.

I personally think that intimacy was designed by God to be one of the "glues" for healthy marriages and that both the husband and wife should satisfy each other, which is what Paul exhorted. I don't believe that God designed sex purely for proceation.

As for the second question, I don't think so. Giving and receiving oral helps both partners to make the most of their love making.
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Originally Posted by Cribstyl View Post
1.Does you church have a teaching on what is approppriate intimacy between husband and wife?

2. Is oral sex within marriage sinful?

(important subject)


Edited.
Personally, I believe that whatever both husband and wife enjoys is fine. And I'd like to clarify that, to prevent misunderstanding. As Christians, we have the Holy Spirit as our guide. I believe that if a married couple try something that would indeed be wrong in the eyes of the Lord, the Holy Spirit would convict at least one partner of it being wrong. And, as a result of that conviction, such activity would then stop.

So, for that reason, I'd recommend anything that both genuinely enjoy - knowing that the Holy Spirit would gently direct the couple in truth.
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Originally Posted by andreha View Post
Personally, I believe that whatever both husband and wife enjoys is fine. And I'd like to clarify that, to prevent misunderstanding. As Christians, we have the Holy Spirit as our guide. I believe that if a married couple try something that would indeed be wrong in the eyes of the Lord, the Holy Spirit would convict at least one partner of it being wrong. And, as a result of that conviction, such activity would then stop.

So, for that reason, I'd recommend anything that both genuinely enjoy - knowing that the Holy Spirit would gently direct the couple in truth.
Excellent reply, I agree with you 100%.
Can or does your denomination establish any related counsel as a teaching on this subject.

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Originally Posted by MrPolo View Post
I don't understand what you mean 50/50? It basically means oral sex can't be the "end" of the act. I needn't get graphic.
The Catechism mentions the necessity of being open to procreation in all sexual acts in #2366.
Well.... .......... it seem that you're saying that the "whole act" should include a sperm donation. So oral sex is likely considered as foreplay.

by 50/50 I meant, half of this and half of the other. (this is hard subject to talk about.)

Now I understand why expensive words are used in the Catechism.

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Originally Posted by Cribstyl View Post
Well.... .......... it seem that you're saying that the "whole act" should include a sperm donation. So oral sex is likely considered as foreplay.

by 50/50 I meant, half of this and half of the other. (this is hard subject to talk about.)

Now I understand why expensive words are used in the Catechism.

Thanks Mr.Polo


Foreplay - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

In human sexual behavior, foreplay is a set of intimate psychological and physical acts between two or more people meant to create and increase sexual arousal.
Foreplay may involve various acts, such as kissing, touching, embracing, talking, and teasing (teasing, in this case, may include methods of satisfaction, such as erotic sexual denial).[1] Sexual stimulation of all kinds, such as manual or oral stimulation of erogenous zones are considered foreplay. Sexual role playing, fetish activities, and BDSM can also be considered foreplay, though they may also accompany intercourse and not just precede it.

There are many historical references to foreplay, with many artistic depictions. The Ancient Indian work Kama Sutra mentions different types of embracing, kissing, and marking with nails and teeth.[2] It also mentions BDSM activities such as slapping and moaning as "play."[3]
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Originally Posted by Senix View Post
Interestingly I've never heard a sermon on the subject. Maybe that's why they used to send us out to Sunday school back in the day, lol... Perhaps that's a failing of the church to give proper guidance about God's intention regarding sex. For example, some believe that the use of contraception in marriage to avoid becoming pregnant is against God's will or a sin, but I don't see any evidence of that in the Bible.

I personally think that intimacy was designed by God to be one of the "glues" for healthy marriages and that both the husband and wife should satisfy each other, which is what Paul exhorted. I don't believe that God designed sex purely for proceation.

As for the second question, I don't think so. Giving and receiving oral helps both partners to make the most of their love making.
Great response, thank you.
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Originally Posted by Cribstyl View Post
Excellent reply, I agree with you 100%.
Can or does your denomination establish any related counsel as a teaching on this subject.

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Oh no, my denomination doesn't do anything like that. They should probably, but I'm a bit too hesitant to suggest it.
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