Hi everybody, I hope you are all doing well today. I had a challenging day. I witnessed to my friend who knew me when I was "out there." I used to be somewhat promiscuous and now I am abstinate. I've never slept with my friend, but I used to tell him about every guy that I did sleep with. And it just seemed so wierd to tell him how God has changed my life now. I felt like I could not point out a strong benefit to having God in my life other than "I don't sleep with other ppls husbands anymore."
That means a lot to me, but I just felt like it didn't mean that much to him. I guess I kinda want to be able to say, God changed my life and now I am with who God wants me to be with, and I get sad that I cannot say that right now. I am divorced and I've had bad experiences with men all my life. Even now, because of my past, I am overly concerned with men seeing the "old" me and not the new.
I also posted this in the Singles forum. I have never posted here before but I will introduce myself soon.
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I can think of many reasons why your "wotnessing" is even more powerful. Why? Because. You have been there,have changed. This is why a powerful message is sent. It's actually like a flame being started. I hope you continue to share with others. They will eventually see your flame.
Be diligent sister. Without the "old you" the "new you" wouldn't be as strong a witness. This may actually help you reach people you otherwise wouldnt' be able to. Let your new walk lead your way. God Bless you for being willing to share the Good News!!
__________________ Former tare now compelled to preach the Gospel and keep to Biblical principles no matter what.
I agree with all the comments. And if this friend knows you well, speak to him often. Let him see what you are doing with your time and how you are real in your commitment.
I came out of a similar situation. My "boys" knew all about my past with women. And now they are just amazed since it's been years that I have lived dedicated life as a Christian. And I just found out last week that one of my friend's has been celibate for year. And he said he did it after speaking to me about it years ago. I was stunned (we don't live close to each other so I don't get to see him a lot at all).
Your friends will doubt you at first (and they should) but over time, they cannot deny the power of the Holy Spirit indwelling you. So keep witnessing to your friends! Your sins are forgiven. Don't let them hold you bacl. God bless.
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