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Post of the day! I agree that we need to focus on God first! Seek ye first the kingdom of God and everything else we need will be done. That's why I don't "look" for a mate. I'm not sure if God wants me to have one again or not, (since I'm a widow), and if He does want me to have one, then I'm sure he could find a way for us to meet. If I actively go out "looking" it might not be the right time to find the right person, which would just cause agony and stress that I really don't want or need in my life. I'm not opposed to other people "looking" it's just not what I feel I should do in my life.

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Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not to your own understanding, in all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your path. Proverbs 3:5-6

I got a profile on yahoo personals but I havent subscribed. There is this one Christian girl on there that I put on "favorites", lol but I have not yet subscribed, I don't know whether its worth the money and right now I feel like I have been called to not date anyone.

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I signed up about one month ago after seeing the ads on tv.
Sucker

I have to admit, if I receive a match that I am not physically attracted to then I don't follow through any further.
That can seem a bit tough, though I am sure the same thing happens in reverse in spite of being matched.

Still, it is worth trying the site for a couple of months.
And you can only hope and pray.

I've been using online dating sites for around 8 years. For the first 3 years or so, I found dates relatively easily which was great b/c I am a late bloomer so I'm talking already being 28 years old at this point. Now, the past 6 years have been pretty nonexistent. I am not sure if it has to do with age (I'm now 37) or becoming a Christian. I just don't know.

Most recently, I had been using eHarmony, Christiancafe and ChristianMingl.com (formerly relationships.com) and just no luck. I rarely get any responses from guys and when I do, they are usually 15 years older ready to start their second families or just completely guys I'm not interested in (bad hygience - hairy beards, etc.). I admit, I've lost a lot of faith in it.

To those who are worried about being overweight - it really has nothing to do with it. I am thin and it has not made a difference in responses.

I've never met guys offline - they just do not approach me. I thought online would be the answer for me but now it's telling me No also.

I have a ton of matches on eHarmony and only maybe 2 men even contacted me. I know I only need ONE but ....{Sigh} The short of it is...it's just not working for me.

I know many people who have met their husbands online. Lately, I can't even seem to get a break from online.

And with eHarmony now being $59.99 a month, yikes!

I was on a long time ago, hardly got matched with anyone. I met one guy for lunch but there was no click, no ease, so I ended it then.

I also just plain have a hard time trusting Internet dating. There's just this discomfort level I've always felt.

But that being said, as I get older, I'm more considering eHarmony. The main reason is that the singles I meet at singles events are, like, more than 10 years younger than I am. Those are bad odds. I either need to find IRL singles groups targeting my age (although many are groups for divorced people) or find another venue for mid-life singles.

I have had friends with good experiences with eHarmony and bad experiences. So I know it's possible to meet someone decent but you need to pray about it and be very selective. If there's anything odd about the person, I would not hesitate to close him out.

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